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EPISODE · Mar 5, 2026 · 12 MIN

016 The Subtle Signs You're Betraying Yourself

from Healing After the Hard Stuff with Anna Parker-Naples · host Anna Parker-Naples

In this solo episode, Anna reflects on betrayal, a theme touched on in her recent conversation with Ebonie Allard.Whether in business, friendship, romance or the workplace, betrayal can feel destabilising. It shakes our sense of belonging, safety and trust, often triggering a deep nervous system response.But beneath the pain, there’s an invitation to rebuild something powerful: self-trust.Why betrayal activates a primal survival responseHow rejection can reopen old woundsThe difference between trusting others and trusting yourselfThe intuitive signals we often ignoreWhy regulation comes before reactionHow betrayal can clarify your values and boundariesSelf-Trust FirstWe can’t control others. But we can strengthen our trust in ourselves.Where did you sense something wasn’t right?Where did you override your intuition?Rebuilding that inner knowing is part of healing.It’s Bigger Than One EventBetrayal often reactivates older experiences of abandonment or not being enough. These patterns can live in the body, which is why deeper emotional and somatic processing can be so important.Follow Links:Find out about the Nervous System Regulation Coach Certification here:⁠⁠https://www.influentialbreathwork.com/regulation⁠⁠Follow Anna Parker-Napleson Instagram:⁠  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/healingafterthehardstuff⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/annaparkernaples⁠⁠LinkedIn:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/annaparkernaples⁠⁠

In this solo episode, Anna reflects on betrayal, a theme touched on in her recent conversation with Ebonie Allard.Whether in business, friendship, romance or the workplace, betrayal can feel destabilising. It shakes our sense of belonging, safety and trust, often triggering a deep nervous system response.But beneath the pain, there’s an invitation to rebuild something powerful: self-trust.Why betrayal activates a primal survival responseHow rejection can reopen old woundsThe difference between trusting others and trusting yourselfThe intuitive signals we often ignoreWhy regulation comes before reactionHow betrayal can clarify your values and boundariesSelf-Trust FirstWe can’t control others. But we can strengthen our trust in ourselves.Where did you sense something wasn’t right?Where did you override your intuition?Rebuilding that inner knowing is part of healing.It’s Bigger Than One EventBetrayal often reactivates older experiences of abandonment or not being enough. These patterns can live in the body, which is why deeper emotional and somatic processing can be so important.Follow Links:Find out about the Nervous System Regulation Coach Certification here:⁠⁠https://www.influentialbreathwork.com/regulation⁠⁠Follow Anna Parker-Napleson Instagram:⁠  ⁠https://www.instagram.com/healingafterthehardstuff⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/annaparkernaples⁠⁠LinkedIn:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/annaparkernaples⁠⁠

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In this solo episode, Anna reflects on betrayal, a theme touched on in her recent conversation with Ebonie Allard.Whether in business, friendship, romance or the workplace, betrayal can feel destabilising. It shakes our sense of belonging, safety...

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