086 Why You Keep Choosing the Same Person (With a Different Face) with Nick Onken & Nicky Clinch

Why You Keep Choosing the Same Person (With a Different Face) with Nick Onken and Nicky Clinch In this episode, Nick and I get into one of the questions I find most confronting and most necessary: why do we keep choosing the same person, just with a different face?We look honestly and specifically at our own relational histories - tracing the types we kept choosing, the childhood imprints underneath those choices, and what it actually took to begin doing it differently.If you have ever wondered why the pattern keeps repeating no matter how much work you do, this episode will show you exactly why - and what it looks like when you are genuinely ready to outgrow it.You’ll Learn:Why you keep attracting the same relational dynamic, no matter how different the person seemsWhy the honeymoon phase ending is not the problem - it is the beginningThe difference between seeing your pattern and actually outgrowing itThe seven types of intimacy all human beings need - and why compatibility goes far beyond chemistryWhy genuine safety can feel, at first, like something is missing—This is the final episode of Season 2. Thank you for being here, for listening, and for bringing this work into your life. Season 3 returns in September. I cannot wait to continue this work with you then.— Ready to Go Deeper? ✉️ Join Outgrowing Survival with Nicky Clinch: https://nickyclinch.activehosted.com/f/27Free weekly deep teachings and reflections from Nicky to mature your being and outgrow survival.This is your invitation to go beyond surface-level change and start transforming at the root.— Connect with Nicky: Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/ Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/ Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender---Remember:  Transformation always feels uncomfortable - until it doesn't. Your next breakthrough might just be on the other side of what feels like falling apart.