087: How Death Doulas Help Families Navigate End-of-Life with Love & Compassion with Aimee Yawnick

Death is one of life's certainties, yet it remains one of the hardest subjects to talk about. Many families avoid end-of-life conversations out of fear, discomfort, or superstition. Unfortunately, this avoidance can lead to increased stress, resentment, and regret when the time comes to make critical decisions. So how do we make the process smoother, less overwhelming, and more meaningful? In this episode, Matthew Peck is joined by Aimee Yawnick, a practicing death doula and founder of Leaving in Love. Drawing from her personal journey, Aimee shares what it means to "hold space" at the end-of-life, how to navigate powerful emotions such as grief, guilt, and even relief, and why these conversations are the greatest gift we can give to loved ones. We also discussed Aimee's six-week course, What Matters Most, which guides participants through a process of envisioning their final 90 days. From legacy letters and videos to healing old relationships, Aimee explains how facing mortality can change the way we live — and not just how we prepare to die. Whether you're in retirement, caring for an aging loved one, or looking for ways to get started with end-of-life planning, this conversation has a ton of valuable insights that will help you and others navigate this challenging aspect of life and death. In this podcast interview, you'll learn: What a death doula is and the value they add for families. Why avoiding conversations about death often creates a bigger burden for loved ones. How "holding space" provides comfort and calm during life's most difficult moments. The importance of legacy planning through letters, videos, and rituals. How the What Matters Most course helps people align values with end-of-life decisions. Why planning early and before a crisis leads to greater peace of mind. Want the Full Show Notes? To get access to the full show notes, including audio, transcripts, and links to all the resources mentioned, visit SHPfinancial.com/podcast Connect With Us on Social Facebook LinkedIn YouTube