EPISODE · Mar 3, 2026 · 17 MIN
1. At the Crossroads - What to expect from this podcast and who it is for
from To Stay, To Leave, To Know - A Podcast for Ambitious Women Considering Divorce · host Ena The Coach
Do I get divorced or not? Should I stay? Should I leave? Do we try a little bit more? You went through all of the phases of this dilemma… Alone. Because most advice focuses on what to do once you’ve already made that decision. 📌 You thought you were the problem. And then worked on becoming a better communicator so as not to trigger his defensiveness. 📌 You considered couples therapy or counselling. 📌 You had moments when you thought you didn’t even know him, or yourself, as your identity shifted so much with the inner work you’ve done. ⚡️ You didn’t turn to your family because you didn’t want them to think you’ve already made the decision. ⚡️ Or your friends because they’d probably tell you to dump him. ⚡️ Most online programs you've gone through focus on business, but don’t leave much space to discuss personal challenges. ⚡️ The online space is full of extreme hot takes that don’t apply nuance and have much depth to them. "To Stay, To Leave, To Know Podcast" is here to provide clarity, commentary and nuance about your situation, and provide discernment to help you drown out the noise of online advice. As someone who had to make that decision, was stuck in the dilemma for over 4 years, and has coached other women through the same process - I know what it takes to make the decision and the emotions you are dealing with. I’m not going to be the one to tell you what to do. That decision is down to you. ✳️ My intention is that after you've listened to this podcast, you will be clearer on where you stand in your decision, whether to stay or get divorced. For you to make that decision from a place of peace and deep knowing that it is the right way forward. ✳️ And if there is any further confusion left, if you want someone to guide you through the decision-making and following through with the action, you can work with me to coach you through the challenges and hold the space for you. - Some of the scenarios will be similar to the dynamics with your parents and extended family, and friendships, and I have dedicated a few episodes to that, too. * This is not a resource to bash men and put all the “blame” on them. But a space to put a balanced view, and to be the guidance for women who are in a very specific situation and stage of their lives. 👉🏼 Apply for a free exploration call here https://bit.ly/form-call.👉🏼 Sign up to Intuition vs Ego Guide https://enathecoach.com/intution-ego/ (FREE)👉🏼 Website https://enathecoach.com/***In the next episode - Can you make it as good parents, but a "bad" couple✳️ Connect with me:YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@enathecoach/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thedivineawakener/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@enathecoachFacebook https://www.facebook.com/ena.bautista/
What this episode covers
Do I get divorced or not? Should I stay? Should I leave? Do we try a little bit more? You went through all of the phases of this dilemma… Alone. Because most advice focuses on what to do once you’ve already made that decision. 📌 You thought you were the problem. And then worked on becoming a better communicator so as not to trigger his defensiveness. 📌 You considered couples therapy or counselling. 📌 You had moments when you thought you didn’t even know him, or yourself, as your identity shifted so much with the inner work you’ve done. ⚡️ You didn’t turn to your family because you didn’t want them to think you’ve already made the decision. ⚡️ Or your friends because they’d probably tell you to dump him. ⚡️ Most online programs you've gone through focus on business, but don’t leave much space to discuss personal challenges. ⚡️ The online space is full of extreme hot takes that don’t apply nuance and have much depth to them. "To Stay, To Leave, To Know Podcast" is here to provide clarity, commentary and nuance about your situation, and provide discernment to help you drown out the noise of online advice. As someone who had to make that decision, was stuck in the dilemma for over 4 years, and has coached other women through the same process - I know what it takes to make the decision and the emotions you are dealing with. I’m not going to be the one to tell you what to do. That decision is down to you. ✳️ My intention is that after you've listened to this podcast, you will be clearer on where you stand in your decision, whether to stay or get divorced. For you to make that decision from a place of peace and deep knowing that it is the right way forward. ✳️ And if there is any further confusion left, if you want someone to guide you through the decision-making and following through with the action, you can work with me to coach you through the challenges and hold the space for you. - Some of the scenarios will be similar to the dynamics with your parents and extended family, and friendships, and I have dedicated a few episodes to that, too. * This is not a resource to bash men and put all the “blame” on them. But a space to put a balanced view, and to be the guidance for women who are in a very specific situation and stage of their lives. 👉🏼 Apply for a free exploration call here https://bit.ly/form-call.👉🏼 Sign up to Intuition vs Ego Guide https://enathecoach.com/intution-ego/ (FREE)👉🏼 Website https://enathecoach.com/***In the next episode - Can you make it as good parents, but a "bad" couple✳️ Connect with me:YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@enathecoach/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thedivineawakener/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@enathecoachFacebook https://www.facebook.com/ena.bautista/
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1. At the Crossroads - What to expect from this podcast and who it is for
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