10. stop chasing what isn't for you

10. stop chasing what isn't for youYou're driven. You're capable. You're achieving. But are you chasing what YOU actually want? Or are you chasing what looks good, what's impressive, what's expected? High-achievers are really good at the chase - but we're not always good at pausing to ask: Do I actually want this? In this episode, I pull three tarot cards with messages about stopping the chase of what isn't for you and getting honest about what you actually desire. Because you can spend years building something impressive that leaves you feeling empty.---You're chasing what isn't for you.You're driven. You're capable. You're achieving. But are you chasing what YOU actually want? Or are you chasing what looks good, what's impressive, what's expected?High-achievers are really good at the chase. We're really good at setting a goal and going after it. We're really good at pushing through and making things happen.But we're not always good at pausing to ask: Do I actually want this? Or am I just good at it? Or does it just look right on paper?And when we don't slow down to ask that question, we end up building impressive lives that feel empty. We end up in roles that look great from the outside, but drain us from the inside. We end up achieving things we don't even want.You can spend years – decades even – chasing something that isn't for you. You might even catch it. You might achieve the thing. And then you're standing there holding this accomplishment, this title, this life you worked so hard for, and you feel... nothing. Or worse, you feel trapped by it.This episode is about stopping that chase. About getting honest with what you actually want – not what you think you should want, not what would impress other people, but what you actually desire deep down.I pulled three tarot cards with messages about this.Here's what came through.IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL HEAR:00:00 Introduction to The Unraveling Achiever00:46 The Problem: You're Chasing What Isn't For You02:52 Message One: Tune Into What You Actually Feel (King of Cups)07:59 Message Two: Slow Down to Discover Your True Desires (King of Wands)12:25 Message Three: You Can't Run From This Work (Six of Swords Reversed)17:05 Recap: Stop Chasing, Start Building What Feels True18:42 Soul Reading THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:You're achieving things, but feeling emptyYou're not sure if you actually want what you're chasingYou've been overriding your gut feelings with logic and "shoulds"You're good at something, but don't know if you actually like itYou're building an impressive life that doesn't feel like yoursYou keep thinking "I should be grateful for this," but you're not excitedYou're ready to get honest about what you actually wantRESOURCES MENTIONED:No external resources mentioned in this episode.---READY TO GO DEEPER?If what you heard today resonated, I'd love to support you in going deeper.Soul Reading is a 75-minute one-on-one session where I open your Akashic Records and help you reconnect with what your soul already knows about your path, your purpose, and what's next.Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.angelamckayllc.com/soul-reading⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠---LET'S STAY CONNECTED:Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.angelamckayllc.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@angelamckayllc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Angela McKay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Career Revival⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠---ABOUT THE PODCAST:The Unraveling Achiever is for the person who's done everything "right" and is questioning what that even means. Host Angela McKay - former SVP of HR turned intuitive career coach and soul reading practitioner - helps accomplished folks stop defaulting to what looks good and start building what feels true. You don't have to turn your life upside down. Just point your achiever energy toward a soul-led career and life you'll love.