117. Marriage Q+A with our Wives

What if the thing that frustrates you most about your spouse is actually part of how they are wired?In episode 117 of the Working Genius Podcast, Pat Lencioni and Cody Thompson bring their wives, Laura Lencioni and Lindsay Thompson, back into the conversation to answer more questions about applying Working Genius to marriage. Together, they share how the model helps couples avoid judgment, release guilt, clarify roles, and better understand the ways each spouse naturally contributes at home. Through stories about tenacity, galvanizing, parenting, household planning, and family dynamics, they show how Working Genius can bring freedom, compassion, and practical clarity to marriage.Topics explored in this episode: (00:00) Why Working Genius Belongs In MarriagePat explains how the fundamental attribution error can cause spouses to misread each other’s behavior as disrespectful or selfish.Cody introduces the follow-up conversation from the marriage webinar with Laura Lencioni and Lindsay Thompson.(06:03) Guilt, Judgment, And Household ExpectationsLindsay shares how understanding Cody’s lack of tenacity helped her stop expecting him to contribute in the same way her father did.Laura explains how not having tenacity created guilt and shame until Working Genius gave her a better way to understand herself.(12:03) Opposite Geniuses And Shared ResponsibilitiesThe group discusses how couples with different geniuses can become highly complementary when they appreciate each other’s strengths.Cody and Lindsay explain how a family meeting conflict became clearer when they realized it required galvanizing, not just scheduling.(18:14) Disruptive Geniuses, Outsourcing, And Family DynamicsPat, Laura, Cody, and Lindsay explore what couples should watch for when both spouses have disruptive geniuses.The conversation highlights how couples can outsource missing geniuses or borrow help from friends and family members with different strengths.(24:12) Compassion, Parenting, And Final EncouragementPat explains that geniuses do not change over time, but people may finally learn to recognize and appreciate them.Laura and Lindsay encourage couples to examine preconceived roles, appreciate each other’s gifts, and let Working Genius bring freedom into daily family life.This episode of The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni is brought to you by The Table Group: www.tablegroup.com. We teach leaders how to make work more effective and less dysfunctional. We also help their employees be more fulfilled and less miserable. The Six Types of Working Genius model helps you discover your natural gifts and thrive in your work and life. When you’re able to better understand the types of work that bring you more energy and fulfillment and avoid work that leads to frustration and failure, you can be more self-aware, more productive, and more successful. Take the assessment today to discover your natural gifts and thrive at work: https://workinggenius.me/about Subscribe for more content from Patrick Lencioni @PatrickLencioniOfficialStay Connected with Patrick LencioniLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-lencioni-orghealthInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/patricklencioniofficialTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@patricklencioniofficialX: https://x.com/patricklencioniThe Working Genius Podcast with Patrick LencioniApple: https://workinggenius.me/apple Spotify: https://workinggenius.me/sptfy YouTube: https://workinggenius.me/wgyt Be sure to check out our other podcast, At The Table with Patrick Lencioni, on Apple Podcasts (https://tablegroup.me/apple), Spotify (https://tablegroup.me/sptfy), and YouTube (https://tablegroup.me/youtube). Let us know your feedback via [email protected]. This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co.