13 - David Ley: Cuckholding, Pornography & Sexual Communication

In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne sits down with renowned clinical psychologist and sex therapist David Ley for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about sexuality, pornography, relationships, desire, shame, and the misconceptions that continue to shape modern sexual culture. Drawing from decades of clinical work and research, David challenges popular narratives around porn addiction, sexual shame, monogamy, infidelity, kink, and sexual diversity while offering a nuanced perspective on what actually drives healthy sexual behavior.Together, they explore the psychology behind cuckolding, hotwifing, and stag-vixen dynamics, the role of attachment and trust in unconventional relationships, why shame often fuels sexual struggles more than sexuality itself, and how society's failure to teach sexual communication leaves many people navigating intimacy without the tools they need. The conversation also dives into porn literacy, male emotional health, modern dating, rejection, consent, sexual negotiation, and the importance of approaching sexuality with curiosity rather than judgment. What unfolds is a fascinating examination of the ways sex, identity, relationships, and personal growth are deeply intertwined.EPISODE THEMES 📝📌 Porn Addiction Myths & Sexual Shame📌 Cuckolding, Hotwifing & Stag-Vixen Dynamics📌 Attachment, Jealousy & Relationship Security📌 Sexual Values, Personal Growth & Self-Acceptance📌 Why Sexual Literacy Matters More Than EverEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣https://www.coralosborne.com/pod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH DAVID 📩Website: https://www.davidleyphd.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidleyphd/CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne