13. If She Can Have It, So Can You! Dating over 40 — the honest conversation about patterns, desire and finding love after divorce

Break your old relationship Patterns and let your midlife era be your Adored era!If you are dating in your 40s and wondering whether love is still possible for you — this episode is your answer.In this episode, relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson appears as a guest on Tamra's podcast Straight From the Source's Mouth, where they have one of the most honest, practical and hopeful conversations about dating after 40 you'll hear anywhere.Naomie speaks from personal experience — she was dating in her 40s after her own divorce, navigating the same hopeless feelings, the same old insecurities, and the same pull towards the same kind of unavailable man. She found her way through. And in this episode she shows you how.This is for the woman who is tired of the pattern, done with the wrong men, and ready to understand what's actually been going on — so she can finally change it.We cover:Why we unconsciously choose partners who match our tolerance for intimacy — and how to raise itWhy the chemistry you're chasing is often just your nervous system recognising an old patternHow to stop looking for your "type" and start looking for how you want to feelThe four-column desire exercise — a powerful tool for getting clear on what you actually wantHow to approach first dates without pressure, hope spirals or disappointment crashesWhy you should let chemistry grow rather than chasing the instant sparkThe envy flip — a simple mindset tool to turn hopelessness into evidence that love is possibleWork with Naomie:🎁 Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman training → naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining📞 Book a free intro call with Naomie → calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-callThis episode originally aired on Tamra's podcast:🎙️ Straight From the Source's Mouth — frank talk about sex and dating