#136 My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me With ANOTHER GIRL - Bulldog Mindset Podcast

Subscribe To Bulldog Mindset YouTube Channel: https://bulldogmindset.com/bulldog-yt-podcast Are You A Bulldog? TAKE THE QUIZ: https://bulldogmindset.com/bulldog-quiz-podcast Hey guys John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset here! Well today we're gonna talk about a girl who cheated on her boyfriend with another girl! (that's quite the hook). #GirlfriendCheating #CheatingGirlfriend #Cheating One of Our subscriber asked: Hello John I'm 24 and I am in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 5 years. Our relationship was always great. She recently cheated on me with a GIRL! when I said that I have found out about it, she said that she regrets it a lot and I forgave her. Now I have a hard time dealing with broken trust. Can you please suggest what should I do now? P.S. I appreciate your life mission to help and teach others and you helped me a lot and you have become my role model. Looking forward to hearing from you! Sincerely. Here is my answer: It doesn't matter if it's girl or a guy. Keep in mind this is not a pessimistic view, you just assume that your partner will cheat on you and you should be okay with that, that doesn't mean you have to TOLERATE it! so if you cant to kick them out the door that is fine totally cool man. Because at the end of the day, you don't have an idea what is happening in someone's head. what they are thinking about. And that's a stoic point of view. That doesn't mean you shouldn't trust anybody, and act on it. What I mean is, even if I don't trust others I do give them my trust, because I can handle what will happen in case betray my trust. It won't wreck my world that's what I mean! At the end of the day, people are people. Just like your they are capable of a lot of fucked up shit when the situation is suitable, so you've got let them be. Assume that they are gonna do fucked up shit, again don't tolerate it, but rather expect it to happen eventually at some moment in time. Like if I hired someone, an accountant, I already chose them. I know he is skilled and all. But if he end up stealing from me I'll fire him and sue his ass. I'm not tolerating his behavior, but i'm acting in a emotionless way. Most of people are way to reactive and emotional in day to day situations. Everything is "hollyshit moment" in their lives. And before I give an answer, I want you to act on this base in your life. You see whenever you go in a relationship don't expect there will be loyalty or fidelity, you don't own anyone, they are responsible for their own actions. And if they have the tendencies to cheat on you. let them do it, let them cheat. If you drive the car, expect someone to cut you off. I happens all the time, so it will bound to happen to in a moment of life. When it comes to dealing with this situation, on one hand it might be beneficial to you. You know that she is into girls. So all morals and judgments aside, this can be of amusement to you. This is a part of her after all and from her perspective she is not getting everything she wants. So you can give her the freedom to do this, OR even be involved in this ! and with her sharing more secrets with you not afraid of judgement, will make your bond even stronger. At the end of the day, she is your girlfriend and she is into girls! either kick her to the curb OR get involved in it. You can't force other people to change, or change just for you. And I want to help you make the best decision, this is life and shit happens! Thar's what I think when it comes to trust in women or a woman and your Girlfriend Cheating on you