141: The Secret to Setting Guilt-Free Boundaries as a Childless Woman

Most women think that if they just knew what to say to set a boundary, aka say "no", they will start doing it. That's actually what's keeping them from getting time back for what they really want.The media conversations about setting boundaries are reinforcing this belief, and missing a critical piece that is stopping women from setting them. First, they tell you that you should set better boundaries. That's not helpful because most women already know they should, but either think it's unrealistic or have been unable to do so.The information out there also tends to be about the practical side of setting boundaries, like what to say or do, such as blocking your calendar for personal time.The problem is that none of this works if you have emotions or beliefs that stop you from setting the boundary in the first place, or overthinking and spinning with guilt after you do set one.So, my sister, Jen, who is an expert on burnout and boundaries, is talking with me about the secrets to finally setting boundaries- without guilt.We dig into:the other boundaries beyond saying "no": the overlooked boundaries that protect your peace. The fears and emotions that stop you from setting a boundaryBoundaries for childless womenWhy setting boundaries is so crucial to being a great leaderWe leave you with 5 steps to maintaining stronger boundaries. If you are stressed, over-committed and tired, releasing the emotions keeping you from honouring your boundaries is one way to find peace and ease at work and in life. If you want to start setting healthier boundaries and sticking to them, join our virtual mini-retreat! Get all the information here: Guilt-Free Boundaries Virtual RetreatFind Jen on instagram: @jenreimerleadershipWhere to find Sheri:Instagram: @sherijohnsoncoachingWebsite: sherijohnson.ca