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EPISODE · Mar 4, 2025 · 39 MIN

2: Are You Neglecting Your Best Friend for Your Relationship?

from Oh Hey Best Fren · host Vernika & Monique

In this episode, Vernika and Monique get into the delicate balance of the "friendship triangle"—you, your bestie, and your partner—and the challenges that come with maintaining all three connections. They get real about the unspoken rules and share their own experiences in navigating this tricky space. How much is too much to share? When does a partner become too involved in your friendships? How do you juggle time between your partner and your friends without making anyone feel neglected? Whether you're in a relationship, single, or somewhere in between, this episode is a must-listen for anyone trying to navigate friendships and relationships without losing either one. KEY POINTS  - Keep personal issues separate from marriage or relationship - How to navigate social interactions with friends and partner - Protect your privacy by not (over)sharing sensitive details - The balance between spending time with friends and partners - On dealing with friends who constantly vent about the same issues - Set clear boundaries and communicate roles to ensure healthy friendships - On adapting to changes in relationships and  friend dynamics - Stay true to yourself, set boundaries, and maintain self-respect  QUOTES  "I don't intertwine the two. What me and you have stays between me and you, what me and him has stays between us." "It's just that you're settling for that. You feel like that's all the best you can get. And it's always better, always, always better." "I found someone that I want to be with, and I want to change some of my old habits. That's it." Follow Us, Besties!  IG | @ohheybestfren Have something on your mind? Share your story or ask for advice!  Drop us an email at [email protected]  Hey Best Fren is produced by EPYC Media Network

In this episode, Vernika and Monique get into the delicate balance of the "friendship triangle"—you, your bestie, and your partner—and the challenges that come with maintaining all three connections. They get real about the unspoken rules and share their own experiences in navigating this tricky space. How much is too much to share? When does a partner become too involved in your friendships? How do you juggle time between your partner and your friends without making anyone feel neglected? Whether you're in a relationship, single, or somewhere in between, this episode is a must-listen for anyone trying to navigate friendships and relationships without losing either one. KEY POINTS  - Keep personal issues separate from marriage or relationship - How to navigate social interactions with friends and partner - Protect your privacy by not (over)sharing sensitive details - The balance between spending time with friends and partners - On dealing with friends who constantly vent about the same issues - Set clear boundaries and communicate roles to ensure healthy friendships - On adapting to changes in relationships and  friend dynamics - Stay true to yourself, set boundaries, and maintain self-respect  QUOTES  "I don't intertwine the two. What me and you have stays between me and you, what me and him has stays between us." "It's just that you're settling for that. You feel like that's all the best you can get. And it's always better, always, always better." "I found someone that I want to be with, and I want to change some of my old habits. That's it." Follow Us, Besties!  IG | @ohheybestfren Have something on your mind? Share your story or ask for advice!  Drop us an email at [email protected]  Hey Best Fren is produced by EPYC Media Network

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