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one's insecurities, lack of self-worth, and how to reconcile who they are while living
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The road to healing one's skin is not solely paved with a good face oil or eye concentrate,
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but with an openness that I felt so fortunate to be on the other end of.
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This vulnerability motivated me to start a podcast, this podcast, one that is evolved
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into a magnetic epicenter of amazing humans, telling their story in a truly raw and transparent
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Join me every Monday as my guests and I dive deep into universal truths by way of humor,
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heartache, and hope.
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There was ever, through friend and partner, in this podcast, it is today's guest, Danny
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This is our fourth podcast together, which truly serves as my excuse to break bread,
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talk about the complexity that is life in the year 2022, and pick her incredibly whip smart
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For those of you just meeting Danny, here's a little bit to get you acquainted.
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Danny El Weinstein is a psychological shepherd and intuitive astrologer based in Nashville.
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She has lit up the radio waves of this podcast through her fair analysis of the things
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we often feel but cannot see.
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She has a beautiful way of articulating the universe as many celestial dances, while
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caring for our solar side from the inside out.
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She is a trusted beacon of light for anyone looking to gain more understanding of the world
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around them, while anchoring the truth that by speaking to what we are weak to, our life
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can mean something wonderful, and that it is always on the way.
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If you are about what Danny is about, Danny offers private and group coaching as well as circles
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and retreats in support of her teachings.
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Her newest offering is a six-month journey entitled Lit From Within.
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A.K.A.A. group one-on-one hybrid mastermind designed to connect you to the tools that astrology
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can give to you so that you may access your joy, live a life that makes sense, and show
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it for yourself in an intentional resourceful way.
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We can connect with Danny, I'll learn more about her offerings, and everything that she
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has from Venus Rising, one-on-one coaching, to a retreat that we will get to here at the end
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So, for more regular astrological new things, make sure you follow her at Danny Weinstein
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on the OIG, and with that, I cannot wait to get into this conversation ASAP.
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So, without further ado, I would like to welcome my dear friend, and just a partner, honestly,
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a partner in shine is what I will say, the incredible Danny Weinstein.
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Thank you so much for being here today, and welcome, Danny.
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This is so macabre, but I like her, she want to give my ulogy whenever I transition, because
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I owe you a far out-living me, you are far out-living me, I can't sign up for that type
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You're going to be like, you're going to be like, live Tyler and Lord of the Rings.
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That's what I picture when I see you.
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You're like a white nymph that's just living above all of us, being like, I told y'all,
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told y'all should have gotten off a fucking Instagram, here I am, but I'm all in
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I'm going to move up to that.
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That's a tall, no order, but you're amazing over here.
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You're amazing, and you always say, like, you're the best person to riff with, and I feel
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like, I, like, when I tell people about you, I steal your line about what you say about me.
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It is such a shared connectivity, you know what I mean?
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It's like, you truly feel like a partner in this podcast, and we were talking about this
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before we pressed record here, but, you know, four years, and you have just, you have decorated
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the waves of this, of this message, honestly, since the beginning.
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And I'm so grateful to have you here because you articulate some of the stuff that people don't
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You know what I mean?
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You make the grace, you know, a little bit more tangible, a little bit more in reach,
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and I think if there was ever a time for people to reach out and want to believe in something
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more than what they can see, it is now, because we have all been brought to our knees,
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you know, and I, and I use the word all kind of as the royal all for anybody who would, who would
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So, you know, I, I want to kind of get into this, like right off the bat here, you know,
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so often I feel like Danny and I have conversations that are kind of overarching vast,
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you know, we talk about the universe and what's to come.
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And of course, we will touch upon that.
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But I think what Danny is so, I would say, you know, connected to,
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is the idea of, and then you used a word that I have not heard in a very long, long time,
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that word is delight.
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How to walk people home to their delight, to having a permission slip for their joy,
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and relinquishing the heavy after a very, if you have already, you know, had a hard life
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leaning up to 2020, then it got even harder.
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So, where does this come from in you?
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Why is this part of your messaging now, and why is this on your heart as we sit down today?
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Well, you know, working with clients, at one point I was working with a hundred different clients
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so it's obviously a small sample in the larger scheme, but it's a pretty large sample,
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wide range of humans from all kinds of backgrounds, right?
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And the New York Times, I think, called it languishing, right?
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I might only should put the New York Times, but they called it languishing, and that was like,
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that was kind of spot on, right?
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This feeling of just like, we're just going through the motion, and, you know, sensuality is such a big
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Wherever you draw sensuality for, you know, some people, it's sight, some people, it's
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taste, sound, but the activation of the senses, and since we are, you know, been so digital,
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those of us who have been in the more the digital sphere, right?
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A lot of people have been out on the front lines, but those in the digital sphere,
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everything has become analog and away.
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And we've lost touch with, like, how good it feels to sit down and have a croissant at a cafe,
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with a cafe where you can't have the gluten, you can't have the milk.
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The whole thing becomes like, can't touch that, can't touch that, can't touch that.
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And it's like, we're losing the joy in life, right?
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And that's just a very small example, but it doesn't have to be people think, you know,
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eat, pray love, blow up your life, go to India.
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It doesn't have to be that grand if that is your journey fantastic, but it can be in the
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small moments. And really, it doesn't matter, because we've all had the experience of
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traveling, going on vacation and being on our phone, our miserable or disconnected.
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And so it starts within us. And it's just felt really strong to me.
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And I think, you know, I went to New Zealand for seven months, but just such a beautiful
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landscape and it's a beautiful country. And it was probably one of the hardest times in my life.
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It was just really challenging. I wanted to see the whole country, so we were traveling,
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non-stop. There was a lot of emotional stuff that was coming up.
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My relationship hit a real breaking point. It was just, and I kept thinking to myself, like,
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I'm not taking this in. I'm, I'm literally at the shores of some of the most stunning landscape.
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And I'm only, only vaguely taking this in. And I just stop myself on several occasions and say,
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are you going to be present to this? Are you going to be present to this? Because no matter what,
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you're not here forever. And you will look back at, of course, now, you know,
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things as incredible. Now you do. You mean my life miserable for seven months, you know?
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But I guess it's such an important lesson, right? That there is the thing of, like,
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wherever we are, there we go. Yes. And it's not a poignant,
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a perspective. Like it's not saying we shouldn't have grief. grief is an essential human experience,
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right? But when we deny the joy, when we deny, I love the word to like,
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A because it's got light in it, right? It's that feeling of being lit up. But it also
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harkens to lay almost like a fanciful feeling. And there's something that's been missing around
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that. And yet, like, I am always looking at the large cultural landscapes. So we have all these,
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like, giant Marvel movies, right? Yes. But really, and then we have what we've had game of
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throw into that is going to be the prequel. But like, where's the fanciful, very tail, joyful?
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Oh my god. Where is that? We need the, like, the autobiography of Tinkerbell. That is what's missing in this
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world. Yes. Like, Peter Pan. Is he Coco? Yes. Oh my god. Like, I feel like we need more of that.
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And I think that there's that just that reminder of that delight and often, children have been
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that reminder. But children have been, you know, at the forefront of this pandemic, of the culture
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to the joy, a childhood. And then how to cultivate adult versions of that or that in adult
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it. Absolutely. I, I want to say a few things. Okay. Number one, I love that you're talking about
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this word delight because I have felt at least in the last maybe two, three months that happy.
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There's something about happy now that feels very heavy. What feels like a goal that we're all
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trying to reach. It feels like something that is a destination rather than this kind of
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frustration kind of occur. The light feels light and ethereal and it's kind of wanting through us.
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Like, I picture someone in the 1940 saying, like, that was delightful. You know what I mean? It's just
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it's something. It is, it is a very present seeking word because the things that I would use about,
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you know, that our delightful is maybe a bird flying by or the taste of that cafe Ola, right? Like,
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you always have this way. And, and you, you said this and I was going to mention that I promised
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you I was going to mention it before you did before we press record, but you use the term,
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right? That first podcast we were talking about the death of Kobe Bryant and you talked about this
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crisis of the heart. It was, it is, you have an incredible way of defining the times and about
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digging into and sifting through all the stuff that we're all feeling, the big feelings, the big
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emotions and extracting a definition. It's, it's a, it's a meaning. It's a definition. It is, it is,
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like the, the, your finger is on the pulse of what everybody is feeling in that time and it
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absolutely, I mean, it's still a crisis of the heart. But now, you know what I mean? It is this,
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it is this lack of connecting to our delight, you know, and it is and giving our self-promission to
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do that. And so, you know, and I also, the last thing I'll say is that I think it is incredible
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how much we allow to pass us by and then how much depth that we bring to the analysis of our past.
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Like, as you're talking, it's like, 100%. I didn't feel New Zealand. I didn't understand what was
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before me, but in leaving New Zealand, I'm able to analyze, you know what, I mean, we're not these
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dynamic beings that can kind of access this, this, this, what you're feeling right now in real time.
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We, it's the brain is incredible that it doesn't understand the importance of what's before you,
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but it can look back and see what you missed. Emery is powerful. It is, it is why everything
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feels good from the past that was complex. You and I always go back to like the 90s, right?
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And the Shetland J. Cruise sweaters, come on now. Okay, here's something, and I mentioned this
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on a previous podcast, this, this Netflix documentary about Woodstock 99. Oh, Michael was like,
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okay, I remember Woodstock 94 when like everybody was like recreating that in the mud, but like,
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what in the fuck was Woodstock 99? I was like, it had limp, biscuit, and corn, and apparently it's
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massive documentary about how much angst was living in people in 1999. And there was like,
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people got trampled on, there was like bleeding heads, I mean, all of this stuff, and he's like,
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why don't I remember this? And I'm like, well, hey, we weren't getting as much information about it.
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Like Kurt Loder probably did one little blip on MTV about it. And then it was gone, or Kennedy,
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not heard it, Kennedy, yes, Kennedy. Like one of these people did like a little thing, and then we moved
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back on to whatever we were talking about. So like the memory, especially of the 90s, when some of it
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so blocked out, because there wasn't so much evidence to suggest what we were living through, we just,
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it's literally reliant upon our memories. Whereas now, there is so much information that, um,
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yeah, I feel like we're gonna remember this in fragments in ways that we wouldn't have this children.
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Well, it's the same thing with dating and traveling and everything. It's like just swipe, I don't know.
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It's a swipe left or swipe right. When, what do you like on next swipe left? I think your left is a
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left is a bad thing, but it's like, it's just, it's the next thing, right? So it's like,
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and I had this with travel, too. I was like, okay, I've got to go to the next place and I got to go
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to the next place. And it's like, okay, you're in the place that you've been wanting to go for
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decade. It's be here. And that's the thing. It's like, if we don't cultivate that feeling of delight,
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we're up here in our head, planning the next thing. And also the kind of transhumanism that's
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developing because of, you know, social media, where so many of us are like, oh, this is a good shot.
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And so now they're designing hotels and restaurants for Instagram, instead of for being in the
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present. And it's like, I don't know, is that just a shift that's sailed and like there's no
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bringing that back to shore? I don't know, but for example, we're bored. I can't believe it. I can't believe it.
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I don't remember. I don't want to believe it. You know, I mean, here's a question for you.
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Why do you think people remove the milk? And that is a, that is a, in you window. Like, why do
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you think people are going? And, and it almost like, extracting themselves from the thing that
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it's almost like a theme, right? If you drink it without the whole milk and without the this,
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and then we transfer it into a go cup, as opposed to drinking it out of the beautiful mug at home,
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why do you think people are, quote unquote, removing the whole milk? Like, what is that? Is that a
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punishment? This is not in the body. I really think it's because we're disconnected from the body,
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because the body is constantly giving us feedback if we pay attention to it. But most of us are
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and we're just in our head planning, not really there. If, if we're wherever we are, and we're
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thinking about it through the lens of a digital platform, we're not really there. Yes, we're not
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really taking it in. So, you know, that's something that we, that's a muscle that we just now have to
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exercise that we didn't have to exercise in quite the same way 20 years ago or 30 years ago.
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That's going to take effort. But I think that there's something about, you know, I wouldn't say,
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you said earlier that I, that I have a way of kind of naming the landscape,
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I, we're obviously not in a period of delight. It's almost like the antidote, right? That's needed.
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Because we are in such a time of a people. Yes. Because we are in such a time of turmoil and change.
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And the thing about delight, not to, you know, keep going back to this word. But the thing about it is
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that's the opening seed because if we're living in that space, we're more likely to connect with the
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person behind us in line at the coffee shop and just smile at them. Rather than your stick is still
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on the conveyor belt, can you please move it? You know, at the grocery store, you know, that kind of
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divide divide divide divide divide. Oh my God. Such a metaphor. The stick for life. Have it for
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bed. What is it called? I don't even, I mean, the plastic separator. That sounds like a Marvel character.
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Yes, it's the thing that you put down. So God forbid someone else doesn't pay for your eggs. Who would
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we be as a culture if someone bought you your eggs? You know what I mean? It's like, don't we all know?
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Can't we all use our mouth and say, like, hey, that's it for that's all my things. Those are her things.
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Getting up the end of society. The plastic separator. I think I'm a little bit dying. It's like,
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it's the same thing as the parking garage separator. I think no, you will not get within six inches
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or feet of this cart. It's going to slam down on your hood. You know what I mean? Like, I
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is wow. I feel like that should be the episode. The plastic separator with Danny Weinstein. I
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am blown away by that. I've never even thought about what a stupid thing that is. I'm right now.
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Oh my God. Oh my God. And I totally drop people. You were saying,
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but this way, let's talk to you because stuff like this comes out of me. Where you came from?
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Oh, never look at the same. Like, do we call up? I know we always do this, but I love it so much. I'm
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like, when you would call up orders coming from J crew. Like, it wasn't online. You have to speak to someone.
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Oh, yes. Right. Oh, yes. You have to connect. I know that this is like everything,
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everybody's talking about is that we no longer do this, but there are so many smaller moments that
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were robbed of because of it. You know, we need someone. We need like a mask group of people that the
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universe thinks is really cool to start making something like this. Hi, value again. You don't
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mean like everybody's like, oh, all these amazing things happen on Instagram. We can't get
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rid of social media. And I used to be like, yeah, you know what? Yeah, the civil unrest and the,
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you know, the justice that needs to be served like so many amazing things for our culture happened
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because of a mob mentality that lives on Instagram. I'm kind of in this place right now, and I know
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I might get crucified for saying this, but I'm like, get rid of it. Get rid of it. Well, I know what I
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think about a lot is the intention behind something. So this is something I teach a lot and work with
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science. Like, what is the underlying motivation and intention? So whether or not, you know, the
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social network, the movie was fully accurate. We know that the intention behind the platform,
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Facebook, meta, whatever that's now bought, Instagram. The intention behind it was not good
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harder. Yes. So what's happened? Like, that's the seed that was planted. So when we do things in our
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lives, it's really wisdom comes from saying, what is the intention that I'm setting with this? Like,
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what is the underlying motivation? Because the underlying motivation is going to reveal itself
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over time. What is the underlying motivation for getting into a relationship? What is the underlying
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motivation for a career for, you know, going back to school or going to school, you know, for
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starting a family? Like, what is the intention? If we lived with intentionality, you know, a lot
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of people would go out of business. But just really the truth. Yeah. I want to share this with the audience.
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Like, I'm telling you right now, this is already starting to happen on my Instagram. It is like,
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it's like, a little bit of whimsy comes through on Instagram every so often. That's like,
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making it sound like it's like, I'm like a five-year-old and it's so casual. Like,
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don't you want to make your avatar? No, I don't want to make my avatar because it's not just an
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avatar. This is how you're going to learn me into a weird metaverse that I don't want to be in,
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because I'm completely fine in the universe. You know, maybe. And like, so anybody who's out there
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making an avatar, I'm telling you right now, that's it. That's it. It's done for you. You've got the
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avatar and then you know what I mean? Like, you have a choice in creating these other like realities
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of yourself because eventually it's just a pull into, it's just a work going to have like the
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goggles on in the airports and the waiting rooms of the doctor's office like while they fight.
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We're going to be walley. We are. Yeah. We are going to be. I think that. So, but I think that that's the
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thing. It's like everything starts within us. So, we need to cultivate intentionality. Also,
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values. What are our values? Like, do we value other human beings based to face? Not just because
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they agree with everything we think or say on a platform. When we encounter human beings, do we
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treat them like human beings in person? It's like, these are the things. And this starts and I don't
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really don't mean this in a polyannoway. Like, if we are connected to a liveness to our heart,
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to a feeling like we can be creative and that doesn't have to mean painting. There's so many
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different ways to be creative. If we take in the bird, if we take in the changing leaves,
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if we're living in a place that changes, they would take in the sunset. If we open our heart,
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like that has a ripple effect. This is the most important thing to me. I would say in my life right now.
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It is the overarching subject is the treatment of others. But it's actually finding that valuable.
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You know, I mean, I understand that a lot of this goes back to wanting to be a part of a tribe.
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And, you know, human validation and we all want to be seen as a good person asking all
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the questions so that we're all liked. But I mean, like, truly from a selfless place to want to
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do that, not because of karma and not because of anything else because you're good for the sake
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of being good. And I just don't think that's a value. Yeah, it's just not a value to people. And it
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just makes life so awesome. And, you know, you see this boldness online that you wouldn't see in the real
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world. Like, you wouldn't have someone come up and talk to you and say what they say in the Facebook
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comments to your face. So it creates this almost like alter ego and identity crisis within
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oneself. And it's just, it is, it is like a thesis in itself to be able to study that.
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I think so. And I think that, you know, if we think about what actually makes us happy,
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it's connectivity. You know, of course, there's always like the misinthrope here and there,
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who's like, no, I actually don't like people. But by and large, as human beings, you know,
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there's this whole thing in the wellness spiritual community about being seen. And I think that
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has been co-opted in a way where people think it means the number of followers. And being seen
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means that you are acknowledged as a human being, right? And that takes other people too. So much
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of the wellness, quote, is all about the self. And as long as one is focused entirely upon themselves,
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yes, they will be unhappy. I'm clock, I'm clock that is just the key. I'm clapping and I'm snapping.
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I mean, that's just the key. And we don't want to admit that. We don't want to talk about it.
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But that is the truth. And it doesn't matter if it's like, it's a friend. It doesn't have to be
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a relationship. You can have, you know, eyes, pets. I don't have a child. But like, there's not a
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singular way to care about other human beings. But being accountable to someone other than yourself
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is not co-dependence. We need people, right? And I feel like there's, you know, so many people are
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armed with all this information and these taglines like, I'm co-dependent. That person's narcissistic
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instead of actually saying, well, I need someone. So that person needs someone. And so everything is
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compromise. Yes. Like, you don't get anywhere if you're just always all about you. At some point,
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they're, you're going to hit a wall, you know? And at some point, you're not going to be 25 or 27.
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And, you know, I think that this culture of just like, make it all about what you want. And if it's not
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100% when you want things, cut it out. And it's like, how do we form a functioning society like that?
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We don't. And then this whole, right? This idea that like, it's only your perspective. No. And also,
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I, I was in this podcast, I wanted to escaping the podcast that it was. But the person had mentioned
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CS Lewis, talking about, I believe it's a chronological bias that might not be the exact term. But
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basically, the belief that whatever is happening now is right because time makes it better. So antiquity
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is out. Any kind of idea that has stood the test of time is out. And it's like, well,
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why do we think we're superior just because we're born now? Yeah, that's a subjective, that's a
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subjective reaction to ourselves. I mean, we're such acts of bravery, of valor, of kindness,
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of throughout history. So why do people think that now they're superior? You know, I, I want to piggy
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back on what you're saying because this whole, I think somewhat of some of this started in a very
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unconscious way with the use of hashtags because hashtags was this like really strong way of
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defining something, like, I mean, hashtagging like a post, right? So like, you know, I would throw
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up something on skin out and then hashtag vegan skincare, hashtag this hashtag self care, hashtag,
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and these hashtags kind of became the rigidity of how we see things, right? So like, whatever
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you were defining yourself by then you were a clean green indie beauty brand that these are the
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pillars and these are the only pillars and there's no nuance in a hashtag. It's just a hashtag. That's
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okay. So you have that. And then you also have like this, you do you, which is kind of like a piggyback
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on what you're saying where it's like people are misinterpreting what that means. That doesn't mean
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you get to just be an asshole. Yeah. That doesn't mean you get to be a jerk to people because you
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are wrong. That is, it takes so much critical thinking and it's a part of the brain that has been
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shut down as a result of the scrolling nature of things that we actually don't, we're not honing
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in on the muscle of parts of these brain parts of the cerebellum parts of the, you know,
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hypothalamus that actually cue patients and critical thinking. So it's like a death of, you know,
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and a very essential part of what it means to be human and connected to fellow humans and our hearts.
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Our yearning, they're screaming out loud. I mean, I think it's, it's so imparitive
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that we start listening to these parts of ourselves that really, you know, want to connect. And I think
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there's a giant hunger for it and craving for it. And I think most people fall somewhere in the
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middle. Most people, there's somewhere in there. Yes. And, you know, the squeaky wheel gets the grease.
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So we're all kind of hijacked by more extremist points at you. Yes. I want to take a second to
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The red good way to be. Well, and you and I, you know, did something that I think a lot of people
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aren't able to do for various, you know, reasons, whether that's money, whether that's a job that's
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tying them down to the city that they live in, whether they want to leave, but they're
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married to someone in that person can't leave. You know, whether it's awareness, like you and I
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left a very chaotic city that being Los Angeles, you're a Nashville, I'm in Boise. It does take a rocket
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science to really infer that this is a slower, more community-driven life for both of us. And so we,
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we have seen one side of it and we've also seen the other side. And I think you and I kind of like
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live to tell the story, you know, of like that there is so much richness on the other side of like
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getting replacing the ego with the soul, you know, and going into these places that want to
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champion you or you, where you can advocate for yourself because you can finally hear your voice.
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And it is, it is, it's, I think about like, what would it take, right, because I'm such a fixate person,
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where it's like, how do we get there? What would it take for a society to start understanding and
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aligning themselves with some of the things that we're saying and acting? What would it take for me to act?
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What would it take for me to send a message to everybody on Instagram, a lifeline for my
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stability and my paycheck, right, because I'm skin-out and for you to say, I'm done with this,
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I'd like to connect, you know, collect all of your email addresses, all of your mailing addresses,
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and we're just going to do the podcast and my newsletter and whatever is an asset to me.
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Yeah, what would it take for you and I to lead the charge? I think about that. I do. I do. And I think,
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you know, we're also not alone. There has been a great migration over these past couple years
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from the major metropolis, there's two places like we're living in. And, you know, I thought about,
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you know, I introduced you to basically my cousin who opened up a bagel store, right? And like,
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I just thought about that and I was like, if she had moved to LA and opened up a bagel store,
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like, it just wouldn't have the same thing, right, like, there's something so community, like,
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this person came from, you know, New York, this person came from Merrick, right,
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your Maryland. You very, yeah, no Virginia. No, in Virginia. And like, there's that Jewish geography
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thing, but just like that connection that can happen in small, and I did, when I first of
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Chile, I felt pockets of that in certain neighborhoods. Yes. I did feel pockets of that,
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but I think that we are craving that connectivity. Oh, and I'll tell you what. So, I know there's a
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lot of people listening here in Boise, if you guys have been to Goldstein's Bagels, that
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business sold out in a week. I mean, she was like, what in the hell just happened here? And I mean,
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she was like, you Boise, you showed up and that is the power. Like, I have never had an event
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turned out. And in the 17 years I was in LA and collected a lot of friends, like, oh my God,
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there's nothing like the power of a place like Boise or a Nashville or Savannah. You know,
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I mean, some of these places that people are moving to that have, that we are infiltrating
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their already born community, you know, name me. 100%. And there's a craving for it. And I just,
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I think it's, I actually think it's more their in society. I think that that's what I'm saying,
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the extremes of hijack and the major cities aren't as aware of it, right? But it's happening across
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this country. There are revivals of Main Street that are happening. My favorite singer-songwriter
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her name's Darbiliam. She's incredible. She wrote a whole book about this. Yes. That she could travel,
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like, then Main Street. She wrote it pre 2020. But, you know, just, I think this, I think it's already here,
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just needs to be acknowledged and it's where we focusing the attention. Yeah, it needs to be cool.
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Are we focusing attention? Yeah. And it needs to be cool. And hip. It needs to be like, yeah,
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you want to be like, you want to start a revolution. This is how you start a revolution. We are the
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cog. We are in the cog and we are the product. Yeah. So guess who has, if there's no listeners,
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then I have no podcasts. If you have no one going to your retreats, then you have no retreat.
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And if there's no one going on Instagram, then there is no Instagram. Yeah. So it's like,
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it really is that simple. It's how can you create and like unpack? And I know that there's a lot of
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people out there where Instagram life is a lot better than real life. And I see those people. And I
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understand that they're getting validated and love on this in this alternative reality, that they aren't
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getting in real life. And they're able to look a certain way and curate whatever it is that that is
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their highlight real. So I understand the importance of something like this, but it's like the
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mental health component. Like, this is why I feel like if I believe in any conspiracy, it is that
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America is so not dialed into the mental health because if we start getting right, if we start
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thinking straight, we're going to start understanding that we have the power to live off of these,
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you know, massive modalities and and start tapping into our own lives. And it is one
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hundred percent that's scary for them. But I'm saying a lot of people are making a lot of money off
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of a population that is unwell. It's like Marion Williams says, Williamson says, like, if society is sick,
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right, if you feel off being the cog, right, you're not sick. You're actually healthy. I didn't
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articulate that quite as well as she does. But that right, that idea that we have to get ourselves
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in line to fit with society is actually the unhealthy perspective. Those of us who are saying,
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I need to put my feet in the grass or in the sand. Those of us that are saying, I need to wake up a
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little bit more slowly in the morning. Those of us that are saying, I actually need to prioritize
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the people that are in my life that I love just because I love them, not because they enhance
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my lifestyle or et cetera, right, or their connection, just because I love being with them. Yes,
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those of us that are prioritizing that. Like, it's almost like the new radical is actually going
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back. It's almost like the out ofistic. It's like going back to a way of being that is actually
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more grounded, more connected. IRL. Right. It's a bug. You can't compare. No, I mean, no,
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can people deeply compare an amazing time in real life with their friends than a post that gets a lot
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of likes? You know, I mean, like, if you had to weigh the two next to each other, need you, where would you land
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on that? So this is interesting because this actually reminds me of something that comes up a lot
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with clients, especially younger clients, they'll be like, I feel that I need more friends. I'm
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like, okay, how many close friends do you have? Oh, I would say like five to seven, I'm like,
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that's a lot of close friends. What is this idea that you think you need? You literally are
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brains cannot, don't have the capacity to hold for that many people. So it's also giving people
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a, like, a false sense of how many people they should know and how many people should know them.
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I would be like, just wait until you're 40 that it'll do, it'll do it for you. Well, that's
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for sure. That is for sure. 100%. But right, it's like this idea that more, more, more, more, more,
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more. Yes. Rather than quality quality quality. Yes. I think it's like, that's why everybody's
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like, oh, what's next for skin owl? And I'm always like, it's not in growth mode. It's
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and I'm using the word expanding. You know, and I mean to expand my relationships with my
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customers as opposed to getting to more stores, or to expand on the stores that were already in.
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Have we tapped out everything? It's like, I always think about the word expansion, or these people
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that peek my interest to be honest, like you, we should be talking more based on how well we get
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along. And I have, I'm, I have a bone to pick with this friendship because of that. You know what?
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I mean, that's fucked up. I think about that all the time. And I also, and I'm so glad that you
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went to go with things. And I got to get out to voicing. You do. And I have to see both of your babies
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who are like, right around the same age. Yes. I know. I know, which that's all other things. I need
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to see her and be her friend, like tap into that relationship because there's so much in common.
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I can already tell. And if she's a friend of yours, you know, period. I've known her my whole
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literally, our dads have known each others. I think since they were boys in Brooklyn. I've
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not, she's my cousin, basically. Oh, it's so awesome. Okay, I want up with her. I want to talk about
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something that you brought up. And it's so, oh, I actually don't know if I've talked about this on
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podcast, but it's something I often think about. You know, you said something like this kind of
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struggle to demand our own delight and that it's okay if we haven't figured it out. Yes. Okay.
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Well, there's no figuring it out. That's the mind again. It's not a formula. This is the other thing.
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Everyone's looking for a formula. It's not a formula. Like being present, noticing what brings
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a smile to your face genuinely. I'm kind of over the word authentic because it's so overused.
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Genuinely. Genuinely. What brings a smile to your face? You know, what literally opens the heart?
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I wonder how many people would know the answer to that, you know? Like, if you're really
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to think about it, what is that feeling that you know it when you feel it? That is just joy.
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It's just, this is a really cool moment to be alive and I feel this. You know, maybe it's someone
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waving to you or saying hello first. Maybe it's a cool bird with a cool color scheme.
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You've never seen before like that. It's so subjective, but like that's the chase. That's the chase.
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That's the true North. What if we said, it's not the chase. That's the invitation.
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I mean, I would say you are right and I am wrong. That's what I would say. You know, just like
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the bringing it in, right? The opening up to it. So we don't feel like we're scrambling. There's
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so much coming in. It's not a to-do. I don't want it to be a to-do list, journaling or like, I have to
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get this done. I have it's just living the life you're living with eyes that are slightly more open.
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Yeah. Yeah. And I think about like why right Chase is such like a 2022 word. It's like the
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hustle, the hustle culture, chasing, but it also sometimes feels like those moments,
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a my visual when I see that bird. There's so many amazing birds here in Boise, but it's like,
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I have to, I have to like get present before it's gone. That's a place that I sometimes go to,
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where it's like, I got to get my head out of the phone, head out of the computer, you know,
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my car or someone even my child. Monty will be like, look at the 10 birds, you know, and it's like this.
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Hold on, hold on, hold on, and then I'm in and then it's over. Yeah. I missed it. So it's like,
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for me, I think I say that word because that's a subjective experience sometimes with presence.
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It's like, I got to get it back and you can't get it back. You know what I mean? You just have to look
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forward to the next invitation that you get to engage with it. That's it. It's like, and that's
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that's the lesson that was continually up for me in New Zealand specifically. It's like talk about
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birds. I mean, the birds on the phone and people and maybe like, what is that? I'm like, it's birds,
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it's insane, you know, or the landscapes, or they have this thing in New Zealand where they,
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and I pointed this out to Kiwis and they're like, oh my god, you're right, they everything,
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all their food is stacked vertically. They use a ton of colorful garnish or whatever, but like,
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literally stacked vertically. I've never seen that you go to a cafe and you look in the window
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with the, you know, pastries, everything is up. Everything is vertical, you know? It's like,
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is reaching. Unbelievable. Okay. So going back to this like, excuse me, this original
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pull on, there we go. This like, it's okay if we haven't figured it out. When you say that,
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and when you said that, I go to this place of, and I'm going to try my best to articulate this,
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this tapping into joy after giving everything to fear and gray and the unknown and tempering
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travel, tempering our humaneness, tempering our touching of one another. You know, like, to kind
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of go from this like, humans are a pariah state, which happened as a result of COVID, regardless of
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what side you are on. People, you know, there were like, no, through this, this is what I'm going
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to keep living. But many people, you know, people who are close to me, it was like, who's doing
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COVID the best? It was kind of like some of the energy that I got. Like, there was a pride and a
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self-advocating and like, you know, you could see the A students, the A-plus students, like,
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across the board in this world. And now it's this flipping on its back, kind of like what you were
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speaking to, this dichotomy of how does someone now go back into the world and give themselves
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permission to just feel light and be filled with delight and not have all of these things on their
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shoulders that we've had over the past three years about what it means to be a part of the human
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experience. Like, how do, how does one go back out into the world after experiencing the fear that they
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did? That's a little bit more challenging. That's not going to be just, you know, a Kusana Latte.
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That's going to take a little bit more in terms of looking at what activated that fear in such
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deep way in the first place. And joy and sorrow are woven together, right,
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birth and death are woven together. And this is goes from much heavier topic, but it comes down to
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what kind of life do you want to live? If you are alive on the earth, do you just want to stay
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here? No matter what, or do you want to maximize? You know, obviously within reason, maximize your
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experience here. And so it's a much deeper conversation around where do you want to live from?
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Let's say you were going to go tomorrow. Where, what would be the experience that you would want to have?
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How do you want to live your life, right? And, you know, different people had different reactions
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as different stages. Some people were really worked up in the very beginning and then kind of
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got some data and was like, okay, I feel differently about this. Some people got it and then they're
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like, okay, I'm fine. Everyone has their own kind of pain point, right? Some people, like you said,
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never had the pain point. And we're like, whatever I want to be alive, you know, this is it. This is just
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the experience I want to have. So it's a much kind of deeper exploration of how an individual
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like that relates to life and joy and living, period, because COVID was an activator of a fear
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that was already in there. Yes. Yeah. What people already brought to the table? Yes,
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later. Yeah. Not that it wasn't real. COVID was very, is very, but I'm saying it activated the
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conversation, the fear, the politics around it, debated what was possibly dormant just within ourselves.
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Yes. How did people react, you know, in other times, if they were old enough, how did they
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react during the AIDS crisis, you know, of the 80s, how did they react every year, run the flu,
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how did they, you know, these are all the other thing about this kind of digital world is that
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we think that we have trouble over nature. And the real growth is to realize we are nature.
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We aren't separate. We didn't land here, you know, in a spaceship. We thought they did, but like we
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so like we are it, right? And so instead of this idea of like conquering nature, conquering disease,
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there's also the perspective of working with it, working with organisms, right? And, you know,
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some people feel like the healthiest human beings are those apparently that grew up on farms,
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because they're constantly around, you know, different kinds of bacteria, and they're, you know,
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they've got their feet and hands in the dirt, my boyfriend grew up on farms, he's that literally
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the healthiest person I know. He is the craziest immune system. But, you know, that's another like,
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do you want to be exposed to things in order to build up all kinds of immunities? Not just talking
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physical, but also like you're well-being. If you never experience sorrow, if you do everything
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you can to say, I don't want to experience sorrow. Well, you're not actually going to experience
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joy either. It's going to be flat. Yes. So you have to have the, it's just like why people will
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say, doing a cold plunge is so powerful for you, because you're shocking your system and
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waking it up, right? So exposing yourselves to different experiences, different temperatures,
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different landscapes, different human beings, all of that, is building your ecosystem. Yes,
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resilience, too. Yep. Yep. And then you're going to be able to experience joy. But if you're
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warding off here, right? And you're saying, I'm not, I'm not going to, I'm warding off sorrow or sadness.
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I'm in the living this, I can't have that. So I'm going to just stay in my lane. Well, then you're
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really going to have the experience of joy. I feel like you, maybe you know, indirectly,
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have already answered this. But when you think about, you know, obviously, we don't need to say
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how many programs there are there and how many coaches are on the internet and bop, but like when
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you say, you know, you are a coach and I see you as like a mentor. I see you as a beacon, right,
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a shepherd. These kind of, you have such a high EQ, such a high emotional quotient and emotional
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intelligence that you can honestly read a room and talk to everybody in the room. And I truly
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feel like that. You can, it's an algorithm. I think in your brain, where you can see it almost
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like Swiss cheese and you can see the holes, you can see the holes and the cheese is the room
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and you can see the holes and, you know, probably help a lot of people as a result of that. But
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if someone is coming, let's say someone comes into this six-month mastermind that you do live from
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in or you're doing these like one-to-one coaching, two questions. What is the baby step that you
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would tell someone is the key to kind of, and I use the word demanding their delight because I
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wanted it to be relentless. I want you to like, I want someone to be in pursuit of it, but which
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is me projecting, by the way, because I don't use the word chasing. But, you know what I mean,
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like, what is, where does, what's the baby step for that? If you're like, I'm, she's speaking
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French and I speak Chinese. I don't understand what this means, finding my delight. And number two,
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what are some common themes that you see in your workshops that are coming up for you now
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in this day and age? Great question. So the first one, that's just specific thing, right? So that's
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like that would be like really looking and spending some time with that person individually,
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which all of my programs are part of, right? Yes. But I would say think of a memory where there was
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delight, where there was joy, where you had a smile on your face, where when you think of it,
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it makes you happy. And let's start to see what's the texture of that memory, what's in that
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memory, because that's, that's a clue, right? So that's just like a baby step, but when it's a,
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when it doesn't have to be one of the last time, just what is the memory that you have that
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brings a smile at your face? Yeah. There's going to be information to extract from that. And then
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the latter question that was a lot of question. Just like what are some common themes that you're seeing,
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like, what are, what is the crisis of the heart of the company? So crisis of the heart, I'm seeing
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people who are really up against lifestyle choices. So they're up against their attachment to a
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certain kind of lifestyle, maybe in a slightly, this is a sounds extreme, but it's not addiction to
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glamour because we live in a society that promotes glamour. And that doesn't have to mean jailo.
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It's just, you know, I want to be at the coolest coffee shop. I want to be, you know, etc. So a lot of
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I want to feel lit from within. I want to feel that's where this idea came from, right? And then
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other themes that I'm seeing are the desire to get back in connection with those that they felt
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they've lost connection with over the past couple years, right? So the desire to build relationships
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from a new place, a more meaningful place. And I think the desire for intimacy on all levels is really
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present. And I'm seeing that a lot. Like, this all this is just falling short and I just need,
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I want deeper companionship. That makes me really, I want happy that that's a thread,
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a strong thread. And people really wanting to reconnect and be activate their creativity. That's
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the, you know, that's a, but there's a lot of breaking free, yes. That's like hitting a wall and saying
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something's gotta give, or something's gotta change. That's a cool place to be as a society. Like
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all the things that people would want, you know, or do desire. It's like that, you know,
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I mean, that's a good sign for some of the things that we've been talking about on this, on this podcast.
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Yeah. And people want real nuanced conversations. I mean, they're also coming to me. So,
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you know, that's a new person. I'm likely more going to attract, right? Rather than the
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extremes, but they're wanting to have rich conversations. And they're also a desire for realness. To
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be frank, like, you know, the ability to say, like, effort. Today, I just need to cigarette on my
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porch. I'm not addicted to cigarettes. I just need that. Now, obviously everybody can't do that.
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Because I'm like, I just want a glass of wine, or I do like the, or I want gluten. And I want
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dairy. And I don't want to live in this kind of or thoracic energy where everything is like,
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that's poison. That's toxic. I just want to live a lightness, you know, a real lightness. And
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it seems like such a, it's, it's just so poignant, it's so simple. It's so supportive. It's such
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permission. It is just, I know that it is a different experience for every human being walking
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this earth. Like, how, you know, hard is relative. Yeah. And, and I understand that. And I know
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you understand it. And we always speak to, you know, the delicacy of that. But it's just, it really
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is like at the end of the day, in order to do something, yeah, you have to do it. In order,
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in order for something to happen, you actually have to do it. You can't think about it. You can't
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Instagram about your, you know, your thoughts about it. It has to be a step in a direction. And you
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have to, you know, like, getting really clear on my purpose, for example, a lot of things
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then faded to the side. Because if it's not directly in line with my purpose, then it doesn't,
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you know, mean it's not something that I'm going to spend equal amounts of time on. And so it's like,
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we, as a collective, getting clear on that purpose of like, what is the, what is the intention,
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kind of what you were saying in the beginning? Like, where does this come from? What is the intention
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behind it? What is the, what is the end? And what is the end game? And how can I walk myself there?
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And know where else, but that? Yeah. I also think purpose is really confusing because we're all here to
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love and to deepen in our loving. And we've confused, I think, purpose and career, like career skill sets.
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It's creative expression. I'm not sure it's purpose. Yes. Purpose is loving. We're here for one another.
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We are. That's why we're here. We're not here just for us. Those are expressions in those
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part of self-actualization and that's part of the journey. But it's, it's not siloed.
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Oh my god. And it makes a work, your purpose. Yeah. Which nobody would choose if they had to.
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Yeah. We're here for one another. And I think that's the thing that people are starting to really
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wake up to. Yes. I, I think out of, so I think the audience probably already knows what I'm going to say.
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But there's something about the way that we talk to each other where I, I hope that we, whatever
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compound we both end up in at the end of our days. And I don't know if that's like a weird Jewish,
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you know, like living that's just a living step. I mean literally like, I don't know. I don't know.
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That's, that's my work. It's to figure out what my independent living setter is going to look like and
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where that's going to be. But I just think that you have a way of talking about the big stuff in a way
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that is not only approachable, but doesn't make it so scary. And it just makes it normal.
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You know, it's just whatever normal is, it's just like, hey, you know what? I can deal with that.
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Okay. Yeah. I can deal with this. Like this, we're talking about death. We're talking about life. We're
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talking about purpose. We're talking about the big things. And you, um, you are a true gift to this world.
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And, and you, I really do feel like you, you have already left a mark in such a beautiful,
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simple way that requires no follow-up. I mean, that way more than I feel about myself.
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But I did this my intention to live from love, right? And to continue to grow as a human being.
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And so to look at where I'm in my own way of loving. Yes. You know, and living a more loving life.
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But you talk about, you know, girls and talents and gifts. But get about you're doing it. Like,
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you definitely, beware the forties. Would have definitely had a very dear show. It's not even a question.
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That was my whole goal. By the way, I was supposed to be Howard Stern. That was my goal.
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I was supposed to be a high, yeah. Well, you're doing it. Yeah. You're doing it.
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Howard, do you think that? Yeah. I mean, honestly, when he retires, I'm that, yeah, he, he got into that.
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That's what turned it all. Like, there was Oprah. There was Ellen. There was, there was even
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Ricky Lake. Okay. But like Howard Stern, that was my, that was my goal. I was like, man, he just got the,
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he got Martha Stewart to tell the world that she uses a vibrator. I want that type of approachability.
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I want people to look at me as a safe space. You have it. You got it. Oh, my piece of vibrator.
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Does that how? Thank you. That's what I was waiting for. Oh, my God. Okay. So Danny and I have already
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made an agreement that she's going to return to the podcast more. We are going to create our
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system that works for our, for not our work life balance, but our, our life delight balance.
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Yeah. And, um, and she, she will be back. Come, hello, hi, water. I'm going to make sure that
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happens because it is such a real relatable, in reach conversation that just makes life, um,
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this is delightful. This is delightful. And I hope that people listening feel that they, you know,
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I mean, they feel that that nuance in this conversation. So tell us, please, before we, uh,
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press stop here on this beautiful video, where can we sign up, stay in touch,
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for your gen on the floor. IG, but newsletter newsletter. Yeah. I'm all from our website, Danielle
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by in steam.com. I think Danny, by in steam. Oh, so we're to come perfect. And we'll put all this
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in the show notes you guys. That's what it means. And you can email me. I respond to emails. You
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can email me. Okay. We're going to do it. Not you. I mean, you can text me. You know, but people can
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email me and I will respond. I'm not, but then the kind of thing someone can do for me now is to not email me.
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Okay. So I will call you or I'll text you. Exactly. But you can reach me. My point is you can reach
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me in my website. I will. That is great advice. I mean, honestly, there's no greater enemy right
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now than someone responding to an email of mine with thank you. No, we don't need those emails anymore.
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Don't respond to your welcome. You don't need that. Okay. Just one more thing to look at. Oh,
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my god. Okay. Well, obviously you guys know my love of Danny. She is, um, she, she changes people,
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you know, through opening portals that, honestly, people know exist, but they don't know how to get
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there. She is someone who can create your homecoming. Um, so with that, please look at our show notes,
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see how to get in touch with her. This is Danny Week at Off the Record with you on Instagram.
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So follow along. Watch the video. See the, you know, all the things, the audio grams, the poll quotes,
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and share it with anybody who you think could benefit from this conversation, because I have a feeling
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we all know a bunch of people who could. So with that, um, go and listen to this and other podcasts
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at Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, wherever you like listening to podcasts, leave us a review,
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leave us a rating. Hopefully it's five stars. Subscribe, share it with a friend. And, and with that,
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I want to thank you so much, Danny, for being here time. Time to time again. The best briefing partner.
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Ever. The best? All right. We'll make it to Boise. I'm, I'm counting, I'm, I'm, I'm putting that in writing.
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So, um, all right, thank you guys. I love you so much. Thank you so much for listening to Off the Record.
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I mean, we'll see you next week. Take care and take care of each other. Bye bye.
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