21. how to stay true to yourself

21. how to stay true to yourselfFor high achievers, staying true to yourself is one of the hardest things to do. You've spent so much time doing for others, doing for appearance, following prescribed paths, meeting expectations. Somewhere along the way, staying true to yourself got buried. It takes real intention to pause and ask: Is this actually me? In this episode, I share three messages: remember who you were before the world told you who to be (reconnect with childhood joy), pause before you act and align your actions with your true intentions (not just doing for the sake of doing), and reconnect with what brings you enjoyment and pleasure (you've forgotten what you actually like). ---Full Notes: Today's episode is about how to stay true to yourself. For high achievers especially, this is one of the hardest things to do. Because as high achievers, we've spent so much of our lives doing for others, doing for appearance, doing what we thought we were supposed to do. Following the prescribed path. Meeting expectations. Making sure everyone around us was taken care of, impressed, or satisfied. And somewhere along the way, staying true to yourself got buried underneath all of that.Staying true to yourself takes intention. Real intention. It takes pausing in the middle of your busy, productive, successful life and asking: Is this actually me? Or is this what I think I'm supposed to be doing? It takes reconnecting with who you are at your core - not who you've become in order to succeed or be accepted. And it takes giving yourself permission to choose you, even when it feels uncomfortable or unfamiliar.I received three messages for you. Here's what came through.--IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL HEAR:00:00 Introduction to The Unraveling Achiever00:43 How to Stay True to Yourself: Why This Is Hard02:17 Message One: Remember Who You Were Before the World Told You Who to Be04:30 Message Two: Pause Before You Act - Align Your Actions with Your True Intentions06:38 Message Three: Reconnect with What Brings You Enjoyment and Pleasure09:26 Bringing It All Together10:28 Soul Reading--THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:You've spent years doing for others and doing for appearanceYou've gotten so good at meeting expectations that your own truth became quietYou're not sure who you are outside of what you accomplishYou do things just for the sake of doing themYou've forgotten what you actually enjoyYou feel disconnected from yourselfYou want to reconnect with who you are at your coreYou need permission to choose you--RESOURCES MENTIONED:No external resources mentioned in this episode.---READY TO GO DEEPER?If what you heard today resonated, I'd love to support you in going deeper.Soul Reading is a 75-minute one-on-one session where I open your Akashic Records and help you reconnect with what your soul already knows about your path, your purpose, and what's next.Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.angelamckayllc.com/soul-reading⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠---LET'S STAY CONNECTED:Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.angelamckayllc.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@angelamckayllc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Angela McKay⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Career Revival⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠---ABOUT THE PODCAST:The Unraveling Achiever is for the person who's done everything "right" and is questioning what that even means. Host Angela McKay - former SVP of HR turned intuitive career coach and soul reading practitioner - helps accomplished folks stop defaulting to what looks good and start building what feels true. You don't have to turn your life upside down. Just point your achiever energy toward a soul-led career and life you'll love.