210 - Dee Wagner - Naked Online
Dee Wagner, co-author of Naked Online, a modern day Zen and the Art of Internet Dating, speaks of some of the trials and tribulations involved with online dating, and how to stay zen in the face of it all
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06/21/2016
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Dee Wagner, co-author of Naked Online, a modern day Zen and the Art of Internet Dating, speaks of some of the trials and tribulations involved with online dating, and how to stay zen in the face of it all
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Release Date: 12/29/2020
Authors: [email protected] (jeff motske, dr colleen mullen, lack belt husband, the resilience breakthrough, matt shobert, suzy mullen, quintin hafner, christian moore, why try?)
Description: Let's face it, 2020 has been like the toxic, chaotic boyfriend who won't go away. I wish I had the definitive answer for how to get him out of all of our lives, but I don't. What I do have, however, is a collection of podcast episodes I've been creating over the last 5 years to help you learn ways to conquer the chaos in your life. So, since chaotic 2020 needs some extra resources to get conquered, I've put together a sampling of some of my favorite episodes for you. There are so many resources right here for you:Becoming more Resilient: Christian Moore is a guy who learned how to overcome a learning deficiency, low self-esteem, and hopelessness about the future to now teach both adults and kids about how to be resilient. Christian was raised on the streets with little guidance. The love of a neighbor helped him conquer his childhood demons. 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Authors: [email protected] (dr colleen mullen, dr kelly palfy, coaching through chaos)
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