26: Identifying as the Person You Want to Become

Summary In this conversation, the hosts discuss the concept of 'what if' and how it can be applied to live a more fulfilling and peaceful life. They explore the tendency to focus on negative 'what ifs' and encourage reframing them into positive possibilities. They share personal examples of how they have approached 'what if' scenarios in their lives, such as in real estate and personal goals. The hosts also discuss the importance of self-awareness and situational awareness when answering questions about what they do, and the value of focusing on the impact they have on others rather than just their occupation. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Topic 01:02 Exploring 'What If' Scenarios 03:09 Personal Examples of 'What If' Scenarios 05:51 Reframing 'What If' Scenarios for Positive Outcomes 08:12 Identifying as the Person You Want to Become 09:47 Starting Small: Sustainable Habits for Positive Change 11:13 Answering 'What Do You Do?' with Impact in Mind 13:36 Practicing Self-Awareness and Situational Awareness 15:21 Embracing Positive Outcomes and Possibilities 19:28 Balancing Identification and Authenticity 25:09 Answering 'What Do You Do?' Differently 29:35 Focusing on Impact and Peace of Mind 35:37 Final Thoughts and Conclusion