28. Is it OK if I Don't Want to Have Intercourse Anymore

SummaryIn this episode, Dr. Heather England addresses a listener's question about not wanting to have intercourse with their partner. She emphasizes the importance of consent and the negative effects of having sex when not desired. Dr. England explores various reasons for not wanting intercourse, including lack of enjoyment, past traumas, societal influences, and unmet needs. She encourages open communication and relationship negotiation to find a solution that satisfies both partners. Dr. England also suggests exploring other pleasurable activities and addressing pain during intercourse. Lastly, she discusses the concept of viewing sex as a gift for one's partner.TakeawaysConsent is crucial in any sexual activity, and it is important to feel safe saying no.Understanding the reasons behind not wanting intercourse can help address underlying issues.Open communication and negotiation are key to finding a solution satisfying both partners.Exploring other pleasurable activities and addressing pain during intercourse can enhance sexual intimacy.Chapters00:00 Introduction: Question about not wanting intercourse03:19: Reasons for not wanting intercourse07:19: Exploring underlying issues11:34: Negotiating and compromising in the relationship13:00: Finding other pleasurable activities13:59: Addressing pain during intercourse19:10: Viewing sex as a gift19:38: Conclusion and call to actionConnect with Dr. Heather England:WebsiteLinkedInSubstack (A Midlife Reckoning)WorkshopsResource PageSubmit a Podcast TopicReady to spice up your sex life? Get my guide “69 Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life”🔥 Learn How to use Sex Toys to Enhance your Pleasure. Toy Talk Sex Toy Course available at www.lovefilledlife.com/ToyTalkMentioned in this episode:Toy Talk Sex Toy Course