41. The One About Protecting Our Children (with Kristi McVee)

What this episode covers

In this incredibly important and eye-opening episode, I'm joined by Kristi McVee - a former WA police officer, child abuse detective, and now child safety educator. Kristi spent over a decade working closely with children and families in some of the most confronting situations imaginable. Through her experience, she developed a deep understanding of how grooming happens, what red flags to look for, and - most importantly - what actually helps protect children. This is one of those conversations that may feel uncomfortable at times… but it's also one that every parent, educator, and caregiver truly needs to hear. Because when we understand more, we can do more. 💡 In This Episode, We Cover: * Why most harm comes from someone known to the child (not strangers) * How grooming actually works - and why adults are often groomed first * The subtle (and often missed) red flags in behaviour * Why confident, empowered children are far less likely to be targeted * How predators build trust and create distance between children and their safe adults Practical Strategies for Parents * Think of the internet like a pool: Put a fence around it (boundaries + controls) Teach them how to swim (education) Supervise where possible * Keep devices in shared spaces * Avoid devices in bedrooms and bathrooms * Set clear boundaries and time limits * Focus on connection over control * Stay calm and approachable so your child feels safe to come to you Why This Conversation Matters This isn't about fear. It's about raising children who: * trust themselves * understand their bodies * feel confident to speak up * know they will be listened to Because those are the children who are most protected. 🔗 Connect with Kristi McVee * Website: https://www.kristimcvee.com [https://www.kristimcvee.com/] * Instagram: @kristimcvee * Facebook: Kristi McVee 🔗 Connect with Victoria * Website: www.victoria-r.com.au * Instagram: @the.victoria.r * Email: [email protected]