59: The Holy Trinity

Passive vs Aggressive

Release Date: 10/07/2021

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Explicit: Yes

That's not just passive aggressive that's aggressive aggressive.

Release Date: 10/20/2021

Authors: [email protected] (BeLove.Media)

Description: My old assistant Jen used to get to deal with my “stress” at work.  I challenge you with this question.  How are you consciously or subconsciously doing angry things?  And justifying it as this is going to hurt you more than it's going to hurt them?  And fIghting with my son about his homework.Administrative: (See episode transcript below)Check out the Tools For A Good Life Summit here: Virtually and FOR FREE https://bit.ly/ToolsForAGoodLifeSummitStart podcasting!  These are the best mobile mic's for IOS and Android phones.  You can literally take them anywhere on the fly.Get the Shure MV88 mobile mic for IOS,  https://amzn.to/3z2NrIJGet the Shure MV88+ for  mobile mic for Android  https://amzn.to/3ly8SNjGet A Course In Miracles Here! https://amzn.to/3hoE7sAAccess my “Insiders Guide to Finding Peace” here: https://belove.media/peaceSee more resources at https://belove.media/resourcesEmail me: [email protected] social Media:      https://www.instagram.com/mrmischaz/https://www.facebook.com/MischaZvegintzovSubscribe and share to help spread the love for a better world!As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.Transcript: Mischa Z: 00:01 How I saw that I did indeed have covert and subversive anger issues that were covert, meaning covert, meaning I could justify them. Right. I could justify my attitude, my loud voice, my...good afternoon... Uh, my, um, you know, my anger, I had anger issues. And although they weren't, as they weren't blatant enough to, um, you know, get me in literal trouble, but they were definitely bad enough to, I don't know if bad enough is the right word. I mean, good, bad. You know, what's the universe got an order in the store anyway. Let's just say that it definitely made for uncomfortable situations with my wife, with my boys. I have two boy. Um, relationships at work. I raise my voice at work. It was okay for Misha to yell across the office at somebody that I needed something.Mischa Z: 01:30 Like, that's just, that's just not passive aggressive. That's aggressive, aggressive. Right. So if you're yelling across your office or across your house at people for things, um, uh, that's aggressive. And perhaps there's some, um, covert, anger, anger. But it's not for me to tell you that you figure it out on your own. We're talking about me here. So, you know, yes. I had an assistant at work named Jen. And Jen and I would passionately ask for things, um, meaning I would yell or raise my voice, or if things got tense in the mortgage business, which it can, I could be very stern and, uh, and then just, you know, that's not cool. Um, any more, I don't think that's cool. You know, like we, I try to come with love as much as possible, like tough love what the hell is tough love, you know, like that.Mischa Z: 02:58 I was thinking about it as I'd written down covert anger as a topic like it's like when your parents may have spanked you or you spank your kids or are, you know...this is going to hurt you more than it's going to hurt me. So I would challenge anybody listening to be like, okay, well I'm not spanking anybody. I'm my kids are out of the house or how are you consciously or subconsciously doing angry things and justifying it as if you think about it and look deeply at it, this is going to hurt you more than it's going to hurt me? Such a funny thought. So, anyhow, I'm a holy mackerel walking up a steep hill as I'm recording this, I will stop for a second.Mischa Z: 04:05 So when it really came to a head for me, and again, let's say as well, like, you know, not to beat this into the ground or beat a dead horse. It's funny the terms I'm using when I'm talking about covert, anger, um, you know. If you hear, um, you raise your voice and then your response is no, I'm just speaking passionately. Well, maybe you want to look at that. Those are issues that I would have. People would be like, yo Misha, you don't need the raise your voice. And I'd be like, I'm not raising my voice. I'm just speaking passionately. And so I try to be aware of that today. So that can be from wives, kids, friends, Heil, if you're screaming at the TV, cause you liked to watch watch news. And then your family gets to hear you angrily scream at the TV. Well, maybe you should contemplate whether you want that energy flying around your house or right enough out of me in that regard. So the, I would help my son Waylon with this homework and, uh, you know, went through a divorce. Um, and so being at least a 50% dad, I all the sudden was thrust into opportunities when Waylon was nine, no seven when Waylon was seven and Cooper was nine to start helping with homework.Mischa Z: 05:51 You know, in hindsight, I probably could have just hired a tutor and then kept my anger issues. So maybe my thrifty nature of, um, I actually just was looking forward to helping, but I don't know if looking forward is the right word, but yeah. I'll help my kids with their homework, you know? Um, yeah, so funny, Hey, if you've got kids out there and you're fighting with them, hire a tutor and then you can, you can, um, keep your anger issues. So anyway, that's such a funny thought. So I would... Cooper got the school system much sooner. So he was very low maintenance. Like he, he was just like, yeah, I get it. I know what the needs to be done. I can get it done. This, that, and the other. Waylon was a different story. Um, while he was two years behind. So maybe he, the light bulb went off at the same time.Mischa Z: 07:02 It did age wise as Cooper, but, uh, I would fight with Waylon. And I think anybody listening that has fought with their kids about homework. Uh, common responses, they get, well, all parents do that. Well, that's subversive and covert. That's how we justify it. Perhaps all parents do do that, but that doesn't make it right. Or that doesn't mean we shouldn't learn how to do it less. Or that doesn't mean we shouldn't figure out how to have the same conversations with love. And why does it have to be frustrating? I think those are great questions. And I would challenge you that not every parent fights with their kids about homework. We find the people who will say yes, I do that too.Mischa Z: 08:06 Anyway, I'm not here to browbeat myself or anybody else. I'm sure all of us to justify it have had moments where we have fought with our kids about homework. Or you could, if you don't have kids, you can think about where you've fought with people and you know, I'd be like, why did I fight about that? I swear I won't do it again Waylon. I won't yell to the point of where you're sobbing in tears, right? Like that's just not cool. I, I would, I'm going to end this episode with this and we're obviously going to have to go on to part five, but I'm very lucky as a father to have had two experiences,Speaker 2: 08:55 First experience was, um, demand, respect come with more angry, more angry, aggressive my way or the highway type of stance. And I had this moment of clarity of what if I tried it with love and what's the fear of letting all that anger go and truly coming at it, lovingly. And I've got to do both paths. And so I've got cool results. Anyway, look for part five. 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Explicit: Yes

The passive aggressive ending

Release Date: 04/01/2021

Description: In this episode we talk social media drama, including memes and Bethany ruining Dawn's big childhood crush. Karma is real and its called getting rat poop baked into your cereal. John Mayor is a womanizing, racist garbage dumpster. "Dr suess is a racist and so is Topanga". One of us has no idea who some celebrities are including the kid rock whereas the other knows just a little bit more. Bethany openly mocks Dawn. Bethany serenades us and has big pipe dreams. We talk tiktok, watching uncomfortable things around your parents and Dawn Gifs. Hope you enjoy.

Explicit: Yes

#255 - Passive Aggressive Drake

Release Date: 01/18/2024

Description: Quake discusses YNW Melly's trial getting a start date, Jam Master Jay's murderers getting a trial start date, Drake responding to Mos Def, Diddy getting dropped from Ciroc, R Kelly losing a $10.5 Million dollar lawsuit, Benny The Butcher reveals he's on FBI's watch list, Snoop Dogg's ad campaign fails, Paul Wall, Mike Jones and Slim Thug announce tour, Billboard Hot 100 and much more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/diversementalitypodcast/support

Explicit: Yes

Passive Aggressive Assistant Podcast

Release Date: 04/28/2021

Authors: Allie

Description: Some bosses just need a little push. Out of their G5 🛩 At 30,000 feet.

Explicit: Yes

Minnesota Nice

Release Date: 08/27/2020

Authors: Minnesota Nice Podcast

Description: Where Passive Meets Aggressive, Where Stereotypes are Confronted, and While We are from Minnesota...We Sure as Hell Aren't Nice.

Explicit: Yes

Passive Aggressive Film Reviews

Release Date: 08/06/2020

Authors: Ian Stevens and Justin Green

Description: Meet Richard Shittlebob and Nathaniel Barrett Moore. Each week they will cast their eye over a movie on current release, as well as delving into the movie archives, and spouting acerbic comment on anything else that catches their attention. Expect arguments and vitriol and content that may be unsuitable for the wilfully offended.

Explicit: Yes

The Passive Aggressive Hour

Release Date: 09/23/2020

Authors: Laffcast

Description: Genius Underdogs Steve Rees, John Kensil, Dan Friel, Darin Martinez and friends gather every Thursday 9 PM ET at Laffcast.com to create the only talk show that matters.

Explicit: Yes

The Step Too Far

Release Date: 09/24/2020

Authors: The Step Too Far

Description: Semi-educational topics, fan submitted Q&A and a mixed bag of games. Hosted by Matt a polymath, Anthony a passive aggressive gamer and Julieth a sassy latin girl.

Explicit: Yes

Snarky with Mike Feeney

Release Date: 10/05/2021

Authors: Mike Feeney

Description: Armed with nothing but a cocktail and strong opinions, stand-up comedian Mike Feeney rants about life and current events through his snarky, passive aggressive lens. Submit rant topics to [email protected].

Explicit: Yes

The Goddamn Comicast!

Release Date: 09/23/2020

Authors: waatgdcc

Description: Comic books are great, but it's often tough to know where to start! For a fresh perspective from a new collectors point of view (with a touch of passive aggressive banter) check out the Goddamn Comicast, hosted by the annoying new kids at the comic shop.

Explicit: Yes

Funny Angles

Release Date: 08/20/2020

Authors: Quinn Fitzgerald

Description: Comedians Quinn Fitzgerald and Peter Arsenault have a lot of problems according to themselves. From passive aggressive family disputes to getting temporarily blinded by the "doctor" at Target. They've got a lot going on, and all they want to do is find the funny side of it all. This is the Funny Angles podcast!

Explicit: Yes

Aggressive Whiskers Podcast

Release Date: 01/08/2022

Description: I just need to get some things off my chest. My own version of therapy without the judgment. My views are my own and meant to challenge you to form your own opinions.

Explicit: Yes

Aggressive Beauty Podcast

Release Date: 08/31/2020

Authors: 1Bonitachica

Description: Controversial discussions about life, money, sex and love.Beauty is pain but so is the truth!

Explicit: Yes

aggressive stereo

Release Date: 12/14/2021

Authors: Inspector Gadget

Description: its fucking brilliant thats what with a bit of foul language...no but seriously folks we hope next weeks will be better but that is really up to you...what we need is comments...anything from requests to just plain feed back would be appreciated to help us refine the format.....

Explicit: Yes