EPISODE · Apr 8, 2025 · 1H 1M
7: Girl Code Violation: How Did Your BFF Become Competition?!
from Oh Hey Best Fren · host Vernika & Monique
Some things should go without saying, but here we are still having to remind people. Vernika and Monique are clocking the violations in this episode—breaking down why the girl code still matters, how social media and celebrity drama have people acting brand new, and why some so-called friends will suddenly claim “we were never that close” the second they slide into your ex’s DMs. They get into the messy truth about besties who pull the “oops, my bad” when caught creeping, why dating your homegirl’s ex should be off limits, and how the internet has people moving reckless with friendship boundaries. They debate if guys follow the same unspoken rules, and whether men even care when their boys cross the line. To wrap it up, they challenge listeners to sound off the alarms. Tap in now for a real talk on loyalty, boundaries, and why some friendships don’t survive the ex factor. KEY POINTS - Girl code hack in modern dating - Dating your girl friend’s ex? - Is girl code similar to “bro code” - Girl code: Then vs Now - Breaking girl code: Jealousy, materialism - Celebrity influence via social media - Girl code – to ALL women or friends ONLY? - Creating soul ties in relationships - Game segment on girl code violations - “Dear V and Monique, I've lost all my trust in women…” QUOTES “Girl code only applies if it's your friend. If it's not your friend, then girl code doesn't apply.” “I feel like women should be building healthy friendships with boundaries and morals and grace and compassion in your girl group.” “Social media is just not a real place. It's fairy land, for sure, because you think you could be whoever you want to be.” Follow Us, Besties! IG | @ohheybestfren Have something on your mind? Share your story or ask for advice! Drop us an email at [email protected] Hey Best Fren is produced by EPYC Media Network
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Some things should go without saying, but here we are still having to remind people. Vernika and Monique are clocking the violations in this episode—breaking down why the girl code still matters, how social media and celebrity drama have people acting brand new, and why some so-called friends will suddenly claim “we were never that close” the second they slide into your ex’s DMs. They get into the messy truth about besties who pull the “oops, my bad” when caught creeping, why dating your homegirl’s ex should be off limits, and how the internet has people moving reckless with friendship boundaries. They debate if guys follow the same unspoken rules, and whether men even care when their boys cross the line. To wrap it up, they challenge listeners to sound off the alarms. Tap in now for a real talk on loyalty, boundaries, and why some friendships don’t survive the ex factor. KEY POINTS - Girl code hack in modern dating - Dating your girl friend’s ex? - Is girl code similar to “bro code” - Girl code: Then vs Now - Breaking girl code: Jealousy, materialism - Celebrity influence via social media - Girl code – to ALL women or friends ONLY? - Creating soul ties in relationships - Game segment on girl code violations - “Dear V and Monique, I've lost all my trust in women…” QUOTES “Girl code only applies if it's your friend. If it's not your friend, then girl code doesn't apply.” “I feel like women should be building healthy friendships with boundaries and morals and grace and compassion in your girl group.” “Social media is just not a real place. It's fairy land, for sure, because you think you could be whoever you want to be.” Follow Us, Besties! IG | @ohheybestfren Have something on your mind? Share your story or ask for advice! Drop us an email at [email protected] Hey Best Fren is produced by EPYC Media Network
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