76. Karma

What if the real reason we keep suffering from our past mistakes isn't that we can't forgive ourselves—but that we're still letting our old selves dictate our present, holding us back from fully stepping into the person we're becoming?In this deeply reflective episode, the group explores the core question: When do you stop suffering from your previous doings? After becoming conscious and evolving into a "new self," how do you truly forgive, let go, and move forward without the weight of guilt, anger, or self-sabotage? Mike opens up about lingering frustration over past financial decisions—like buying an expensive car he now regrets—feeling it limits his current life and triggers negative self-talk. The conversation unpacks how the "old self" (with its bad habits and impulses) can still haunt the "new self," creating internal conflict, even when daily life feels improved. Phillip shares insights on acceptance as a feeling that "washes over" him, while the group discusses the power of right action, presence, and immersing yourself in your new identity to truly liberate yourself.Most insightful moment: Eldar cuts through with: “Our current bad self is creating a punishment for our future good self.” Mike connects it to his own process: the old self didn't suffer in the moment, but the new self now carries the weight. The paradox? True freedom comes from seeing things for what they are, being grateful for the present, and taking consistent right action—killing the old self through living the new one.Key takeaways:Forgiving the past requires fully buying into your new identity—guilt and self-punishment linger when the "old self" still influences thoughts and decisionsRight action and presence are the antidotes: immerse yourself in virtuous habits, and the old patterns lose powerNegative self-talk and rumination ("coulda, woulda, shoulda") keep you trapped; gratitude for what you have now breaks the cycleFamily, environment, and external reminders of the past can reopen wounds—sometimes creating distance or boundaries is necessary for growthEvolution isn't linear: ups and downs are normal, but consistency in the "new self" leads to real liberation and reduced sufferingThis episode is essential for anyone carrying regret, guilt, or frustration from past choices—whether financial mistakes, relationships, or habits—that still weigh on your present. It's honest, compassionate, and practical, showing how awareness, acceptance, and aligned action create freedom.As Mike commits to focusing on "right action" and uniting his family while Phillip processes new dynamics in friendships, the group bets on major growth ahead. But will the "old self" creep back during setbacks, or can they fully kill it through consistent presence? How will this ripple into daily life, relationships, and bigger goals? Stay tuned—the real test is living it.If this hit home, what's one past choice still causing you suffering? How are you practicing "right action" to move forward? Share in the comments or with a friend ready to break free from their old self. Subscribe and hit notifications—we're diving deeper into real transformation. 🎙️Feel stuck and can't actualize? We'd love to hear your story - form  - https://forms.gle/joegCWQ7mHt7eN3K9