84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade episode artwork

EPISODE · Nov 23, 2022 · 1H 18M

84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade

from Modern Anarchy · host Dr. Nicole Thompson

On today's episode, writer and activist Dean Spade (He\Him) joins us for a conversation all about liberating our relationships from patriarchal and capitalist understandings of connection. Together we talk about building community outside of the nuclear model, choosing to be uncomfortable in order to live more, and feeling powerless to jealousy.  RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠ If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Dean Spade's Community Website Instagram Resources to Learn More: Fireweed Collective Dismantling the Romance Myth Falling In Love Hits The Brain Like Cocaine Does The Brain Looks The Same When We're In Love Or High On Cocaine What is the Relationship Escalator? Loneliness at epidemic levels in America Angela Davis likens abolishing the prison system to end of slavery Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Between monogamy and polyamory Relationship anarchy could be about so much more than the freedom to fuck Of relationship anarchy, accessibility and sitting shiva— Part 1: The anarchism of “relationship anarchy

On today's episode, writer and activist Dean Spade (He\Him) joins us for a conversation all about liberating our relationships from patriarchal and capitalist understandings of connection. Together we talk about building community outside of the nuclear model, choosing to be uncomfortable in order to live more, and feeling powerless to jealousy.  RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠ If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Dean Spade's Community Website Instagram Resources to Learn More: Fireweed Collective Dismantling the Romance Myth Falling In Love Hits The Brain Like Cocaine Does The Brain Looks The Same When We're In Love Or High On Cocaine What is the Relationship Escalator? Loneliness at epidemic levels in America Angela Davis likens abolishing the prison system to end of slavery Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Between monogamy and polyamory Relationship anarchy could be about so much more than the freedom to fuck Of relationship anarchy, accessibility and sitting shiva— Part 1: The anarchism of “relationship anarchy

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