892 : Stop Saying “Sorry, My English Is Bad” (7 Reasons It’s Keeping You Stuck)

Do you ever start speaking and immediately apologize—“Sorry, my English is bad”? If you do, I want you to hear me clearly: that sentence is not helping you. It’s training you to shrink, and it’s teaching other people to focus on your English instead of your message.In this episode, I’m breaking down 7 real reasons that apology keeps you stuck—from job interviews to meetings to networking events to doctor appointments. You’ll hear what those moments sound like in real life, why the apology shifts the energy in the room, and what to say instead so you can speak with more confidence without pretending your English is perfect.This is about reclaiming your voice. Because you don’t need flawless English to be taken seriously—you need presence, clarity, and the decision that what you’re saying matters.What You’ll LearnWhy you’re often the only one judging your English that harshlyHow apologizing puts a “microscope” on your mistakesWhy the apology makes the conversation about your English (not your idea)How it quietly asks permission to be taken seriouslyHow it trains your brain to expect failure before you speakWhy it creates a smaller, apologetic version of you that isn’t realWhat confident, respectful replacement phrases sound likeKey Moments / Segment BreakdownJob interview: introducing yourself without a warning labelNetworking: responding to compliments without rejecting yourselfTeam meeting: getting to your point without losing the floorClient call: sounding professional without asking permissionPresentation/Q&A: pausing without panicking (and keeping the room with you)Social/work dinner: telling your story without disappearingParent-teacher conversation: speaking with authority about what mattersMindset Shifts“I need to apologize first” → “I’m allowed to speak as I am”“They’re grading me” → “Most people respect bilingual speakers”“My English is the topic” → “My message is the topic”“A pause means I’m failing” → “A pause means I’m thinking”“I must be perfect to be heard” → “I must be present to be heard”Practical Takeaways (Replacement Phrases)Instead of “Sorry, my English is bad,” say: “Thanks—let me jump in.”When someone compliments you, say: “English is my second language—and I love using it.”To introduce your point in a meeting, say: “Here’s what I want to say.”On a serious call, say: “Let me tell you what I think.”When you need a pause, say: “Give me a second—I want to say this well.”Before telling a story, say: “Okay, here we go.”For meaningful conversations, say: “I want to say this in my own words.”Listener Reflection QuestionsWhere do I apologize the most—work, social situations, or appointments?What do I fear people will think if I don’t apologize first?How would my tone change if I started with a claim instead of a warning?What phrase from today’s episode will I practice all week?What would happen if I decided my message mattered more than my mistakes?If you want to sign up for the free English email newsletter, go to https://speakenglishwithtiffani.com/newsletter