9. How to Break the Patterns Before Your Next Relationship

How do you stop repeating the same relationship patterns after divorce?In this episode of When the Fairy Tale Ends, Raquell gets honest about the lessons she learned from two marriages, the red flags she ignored, and what finally helped her build healthier relationship habits moving forward. This conversation is all about self-awareness, boundaries, emotional responsibility, and learning how to date differently after heartbreak.Raquell shares why so many women settle for “potential,” how to stop over-investing too quickly, and the importance of collecting data before making major life decisions in a new relationship. She also opens up about communication, standards, and why peace has become non-negotiable in this season of her life.If you’ve ever wondered how to trust yourself again after divorce or heartbreak, this episode will leave you thinking differently about what healthy love actually looks like.In this episode, we discuss:The red flags Raquell wishes she hadn’t ignoredWhy self-awareness matters more than blameHow to define what you truly want in a relationshipThe difference between standards and unrealistic expectationsWhy observing someone over time changes everythingThe importance of boundaries, communication, and emotional responsibilityHow to stop sending your “representative” in relationshipsYou can book a Free 60-minute Divorce Consultation Call:  https://herdivorceacademy.com/program/book-a-coaching-fit-callHave a question? Ask here!HerdivorceacademyDivorce HotlineConnect with Raquell on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/herdivorceacademy/Have a Dear Raquell question you want answered on the podcast?📩 Email your anonymous story to [email protected]