A Way With Words

Opener 1. Choose one word that describes: Your week. Your relationship with God. 2. What is a word or phrase that you used to – or still do – mispronounce? Discussion Questions 1. Read Proverbs 12:18. The sermon described words as being like “swords” that can deeply wound others. Why do you think words can impact us so powerfully? Have you experienced words that hurt—or healed—you for a long time afterward? 2. Read Luke 6:43-45 Jesus says, “Out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks.” What do you think Jesus means by that? What is the difference between behavior modification and transformation when it comes to our words? 3. What unhealthy heart issues tend to show up through people’s words (anger, insecurity, pride, fear, bitterness, etc.)? Which do you most commonly notice in yourself? 4. The sermon also described words as “seeds.” Think about a person whose words helped shape your life in a positive way. What did they say that made such an impact? 5. Jesus consistently noticed and spoke to people one at a time. Who in your life right now may need intentional encouragement, affirmation, or life-giving words from you? What will you do about it? Going Deeper 1. What keeps you from speaking more encouraging words to others? Does the perspective of words as seeds change your motivation? 2. What is the difference between flattering words and truly life-giving words rooted in love and truth? 3. In what kinds of environments do words most easily become “swords” for you (home, parenting, marriage, church, online interactions, work, stress, exhaustion, etc.)? What would it look like to invite Jesus into that space? Live It Out 1. Spiritual Practice: Before conversations, pray: “God, guide my words and help me listen.” 2. Practicing Presence Tip: Listen more than you speak—aim for 70% listening, 30% talking. 3. Holy Inconvenience: Think of someone who drains you a bit… and invite them to coffee or a conversation. Prayer Prompt Have each person share one relationship or conversation where they need wisdom and grace with their words. Pray that God would transform our hearts so that our words become seeds of life, hope, and significance for others.