The main function of the idea of heaven is to take our attention away from the absurdity of the idea of hell. The over ten years long head starts, have failed to make most adults, closer than most children, to reaching self-control. Life cannot help but give many reasons to be happy to someone who is happy for no reason. The love of solitude seems to be the hatred of people to those who do not enjoy their own company.
Mindfulness is the art of transforming a journey of a thousand steps into a thousand destinations. Nobody enjoys the company of others as intensely as someone who usually avoids the company of others. When it comes to sex, some men treat women as objects. Some women treat objects as men.