avoidants

for the ones who are scared to be seen, because they don't do grief "right"If you're an avoidant, and you've left someone who would have loved you through it...... ....this is your wake-up call. Not to come back to someone and repeat the same patterns, but to do the work so you can show up better, even if it’s not with them. You don’t have to stay broken. You don’t have to keep running. There’s someone who wanted to meet you in the dark. Maybe next time, let them. I'm not telling people to stay in unsafe dynamics. I'm not minimizing the pain they caused others. I'm simply speaking to the people who might still be capable of growth.......but don’t know that love can be a place for it. You're not alone You're a mourning person