Bifocals Over Butterflies

Dunke and Obafeyikemi are serving unfiltered truth about love after 40 with zero apologies. They've traded rose-coloured glasses for bifocals and peace—and they're not looking back. From navigating divorce to finding mature partnership, these two break down why butterflies are overrated (hello, settled nervous systems!), why younger men might actually get it (Dunke's not fully convinced though), and how trusting your gut becomes non-negotiable. They're done with emotional fixer-uppers and ready for kindness, safety, and someone who can handle their full complexity with their full chest.This is the conversation for women who've walked through enough decades to know exactly what they don't want—and aren't afraid to choose themselves first. Authentic, bold, and refreshingly honest, with just the right dose of "I woke up high-energy today" chaos.Perfect for: Women 40+ ready to stop making excuses and start demanding peace in their relationships—or perfectly content flying solo with good friends and zero drama Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.