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EPISODE · Nov 14, 2025 · 38 MIN

Body Image: This Episode Will Teach You How To Love Your Body | Jules Von Hep & Dr Brendan J Dunlop

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Jules Von Hep spent 20 years as a celebrity spray tanner, working with Hollywood actors and Victoria's Secret models. What did he learn? That every single person, no matter how "perfect," apologised for their body. Joined by expert Consultant Clinical Psychologist Dr Brendan J Dunlop, this episode explores the staggering impact of beauty standards on mental health.This episode tackles the body image crisis, exploring why we are all conditioned to dislike how we look. We explore the drivers - toxic masculinity, social media algorithms, and stagnant marketing and discuss the shocking stat that 48% of men are struggling in silence with body image problems. Jules shares his powerful journey from body dysmorphia to true body confidence, and Brendan gives practical tips for mindset shifts to love your body. This episode will teach you how to normalize the "body wobble," reframe exercise as self-love, and finally build a better relationship with the person in the mirror.More from Well Enough: Follow Well Enough on Instagram hereFollow Emilie on Instagram here Subscribe to the Well Enough newsletter hereTimecodes:00:00 How Body Dysmorphia Shaped My Life 01:05 Launching a Body Confidence Brand 02:15 Expert Opinion: Are Male Body Image Issues Common? 03:09 48% of Men & Boys Struggle With This05:10 Spray Tanner's Secret: Everybody Has Body Doubts 06:30 Common Body Image Triggers 08:00 Where Do Male Beauty Standards Come From? 09:35 How the Social Media Algorithm Feeds Body Image Insecurity 10:30 The Truth About Men's Underwear Models 12:10 Wellness Culture and the "Homogenization" of Looks 13:30 Why the Male Body Standard is "Stagnant and Boring" 14:20 Ozempic, Steroids & the Warped View of the Male Body 16:20 Internalized Phobia: Body Image in the Queer Community18:05 Strategy: How to "Flip the Script" on Negative Self-Talk20:55 "Don't Punish, Nourish" Your Body23:10 The RuPaul Rule for Self Compassion25:05 The "Drip in the Ceiling": An Analogy for Mental Health 30:15 Mindset Shift: Confidence is a Journey, Not a Destination 32:00 Two Practical Tips to Build Self-Love TodayMore from today’s guests:Jules’s book ‘The Confidence Ritual’ here Brendan’s book ‘The Queer Mental Health Workbook’ hereResources:Been There - Been There is a charity with an app that connects people aged 18 and over with a vetted and trained Mentor to help with any body image issues they may be experiencing.Young Minds Body Image support here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jules Von Hep spent 20 years as a celebrity spray tanner, working with Hollywood actors and Victoria's Secret models. What did he learn? That every single person, no matter how "perfect," apologised for their body. Joined by expert Consultant Clinical Psychologist Dr Brendan J Dunlop, this episode explores the staggering impact of beauty standards on mental health.This episode tackles the body image crisis, exploring why we are all conditioned to dislike how we look. We explore the drivers - toxic masculinity, social media algorithms, and stagnant marketing and discuss the shocking stat that 48% of men are struggling in silence with body image problems. Jules shares his powerful journey from body dysmorphia to true body confidence, and Brendan gives practical tips for mindset shifts to love your body. This episode will teach you how to normalize the "body wobble," reframe exercise as self-love, and finally build a better relationship with the person in the mirror.More from Well Enough: Follow Well Enough on Instagram hereFollow Emilie on Instagram here Subscribe to the Well Enough newsletter hereTimecodes:00:00 How Body Dysmorphia Shaped My Life 01:05 Launching a Body Confidence Brand 02:15 Expert Opinion: Are Male Body Image Issues Common? 03:09 48% of Men & Boys Struggle With This05:10 Spray Tanner's Secret: Everybody Has Body Doubts 06:30 Common Body Image Triggers 08:00 Where Do Male Beauty Standards Come From? 09:35 How the Social Media Algorithm Feeds Body Image Insecurity 10:30 The Truth About Men's Underwear Models 12:10 Wellness Culture and the "Homogenization" of Looks 13:30 Why the Male Body Standard is "Stagnant and Boring" 14:20 Ozempic, Steroids & the Warped View of the Male Body 16:20 Internalized Phobia: Body Image in the Queer Community18:05 Strategy: How to "Flip the Script" on Negative Self-Talk20:55 "Don't Punish, Nourish" Your Body23:10 The RuPaul Rule for Self Compassion25:05 The "Drip in the Ceiling": An Analogy for Mental Health 30:15 Mindset Shift: Confidence is a Journey, Not a Destination 32:00 Two Practical Tips to Build Self-Love TodayMore from today’s guests:Jules’s book ‘The Confidence Ritual’ here Brendan’s book ‘The Queer Mental Health Workbook’ hereResources:Been There - Been There is a charity with an app that connects people aged 18 and over with a vetted and trained Mentor to help with any body image issues they may be experiencing.Young Minds Body Image support here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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