Bonus Episode | Unhinged Out Lout with Kim Staples (#7)

Welcome to episode 7 of Unhinged Out Loud with Kim Staples, where I say the quiet part out loud. You cannot drag someone out of their survival strategy, no matter how much you love them. When you're deep in your healing journey, one of the loneliest things no one prepares you for is this: the grief of loving people who aren't doing the work. Not judging them. Not feeling superior. Just... watching someone you love suffer from the same wounds, the same cycles, the same patterns, and knowing exactly what it would take to shift it. But they didn't ask. And even when they do ask, they don't always have the container to receive it. That's what this episode is about. Because truth delivered to a dysregulated nervous system doesn't land as love, it lands as threat. And you, as an intuitive, feel every wall that goes up. You feel yourself pouring into a cup with a crack in the bottom. And then you feel guilty for feeling drained. I see you. In this episode, I'm walking you through: ✨ The difference between loving someone and being responsible for their awakening ✨ Why your empathy without boundaries is self-abandonment ✨ What "loving from a distance" actually means, and why it might be the most spiritually mature love there is ✨ When it's time to walk away, and why that is not a failure of love This episode includes: • Why truth seekers tend to hold on too long, and how that becomes self-abandonment • The three questions to ask yourself when a relationship is costing you your peace • Why removing yourself as a buffer might be the most loving thing you can do • The difference between enabling someone's avoidance and holding space for their highest self • Why your limits are not cruelty, they are sovereignty If you've ever felt the quiet grief of loving someone who isn't ready, this episode will give you permission to stop carrying what was never yours to carry. Because the most loving thing you can do for the people in your life is refuse to disappear for them. Ready to go deeper? 📲 Follow Kim on Instagram: @kimberly_staples 🌟 Join the Divine Activation membership for root-level healing, nervous system rewiring, and learning to love without losing yourself 💬 Screenshot this episode and tag Kim so she knows it landed 💜 If this episode moved something in you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a woman in your life who needs it. Stay in your sovereignty. Until next time, keep choosing yourself, and keep living unapologetically. 🔗 sacredlyunhingedmom.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices