Death and Deductibles

In this episode, take a candid (and slightly sarcastic) look at what it means to get older and a lot less tolerant. At some point, your time and energy just become too valuable.We also get into the quieter side of loss, the friendships that fade, the family dynamics that shift, and the weird grief of missing people who are still very much alive. It’s about figuring out what relationships are worth the effort and which ones you’re allowed to outgrow.We reflect on how we were raised, what we’ve carried with us, and whether it’s possible to build something healthier with siblings before it's too late.And of course, our bodies have entered the chat. From perimenopause to menopause, we cover the realities, the surprises, and why taking care of ourselves is no longer optional. Navigating healthcare is its own adventure, where hitting your deductible and out-of-pocket max starts to feel like a personal achievement.We also touch on burnout, work, and the fine art of quiet quitting, aka protecting your energy without completely giving up.It’s honest, a little dark, a little metal, and genuinely funny, because sometimes the only way through this phase of life is to laugh, set boundaries, play mahjong, and keep going.