Directives [Derek Sivers]

Full podcast: https://tim.blog/2015/12/14/derek-sivers-on-developing-confidence-finding-happiness-and-saying-no-to-millions/ (1h30min in)Transcript: https://tim.blog/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/125-derek-sivers.pdf (page 34 on)So, I’ve got to tell you, so we haven’t really talked about this yet,but this is so up your alley, up your listeners’ alley, people who areinto books will appreciate this. So, a lot of my friends – actually, Idon’t think any of my friends are as into reading as I am. Okay, acouple are, but most aren’t.And so, whenever I tell them about some amazing book I’ve read,the gist I get from my friends is, just tell me what to do.Tim Ferriss: Give me the index card, yeah.Derek Sivers: It’s like, yeah, like they don’t wanna read the book. So, my friendJeff, he’s a smart guy, he’s a lawyer, he’s smart. But, he just looksat me with these tired eyes, and is just like, I’m not gonna read thebook, dude. You can stop pushing it on me, it’s never gonnahappen. He said, just tell me what to do, he said, I trust you. I likeyou, you know me, so tell me what to do.And, I realized that, if you trust the source, you don’t need thearguments. That so much of a book is arguing its point, but often,you don’t need the argument. If you trust the source, you can justget the point. So, after reading, taking detailed notes on 220 books,on my site, I realized that distilling wisdom into directives is sovaluable, but it’s so rarely done.In fact, the only time I can think of that it was done was MichaelPollan, with his three books in a row, about food, each one gettingshorter and shorter. I think the first one was, was it Omnivore’sDilemma?Tim Ferriss: Omnivore’s Dilemma. Yeah.Which was big, so I know you’re the kind of guy that would –Tim Ferriss: It’s a great book, but also, I mean, there are, like 70 pages on cornproduction in the US, and most people just drop out. Even I waslike, God, my eyes are glazing over here. But, I know there’s somegreat stuff coming, so I’ll just slog through it. But yes, a very greatbook, but a very big book.Derek Sivers: And then, he did another one a year later, that basically took thebest stuff from Omnivore’s Dilemma, and made it into a shorter,kinda more pop market kinda 2 to 300-page book. I forget thename of that one. And –Tim Ferriss: Could it have been In Defense of Food, maybe?Derek Sivers: Yes, that sounds right, thank you.So, even that one, I remember someone telling me I should read it,and I remember looking at it and going, I don’t know if I wannaread 300 pages about food. But then, about a year later, he put outa teeny, tiny, little book called Food Rules. I think that’s what it’scalled. And, it’s like, you basically can read the whole thing whilejust standing in the bookstore. It’s, he took the energy and theeffort to compress everything he’s learned into very succinctdirectives. And, that’s what it is. Sentences that tell you what to do.Do this, do that.Or, don’t do that. If your grandmother wouldn’t recognize it asfood, don’t eat it. And, his tagline for that book, the popular phrasewas, “Eat food, mostly plants, not too much.”Tim Ferriss: Right.Derek Sivers: And, I so admired that. I got inspired by the effort it takes to distillthe blah, blah, blah, blah blah, down into the specific sentences forthe people that just aren’t going to read that 900-page book, right?Probably all of that same information is in the 900-page book, butwe have to be honest for a minute and admit that not everyone isgoing to read the 900-page book. So, as I’m reading these 300-page books, 220 of them, very often there’ll be this, like, brilliant,amazing, important point on, like, page 290, and I feel almost alittle sad that almost nobody’s gonna read that. I wish that theselittle, tiny points were extracted, without all the surroundingargument.So, especially – okay, I’ll admit, this was also sparked by the ideaof when I had a kid, and I thought, I might not be alive when he’smy age, or even when he’s 19, I might die before he gets older.How can I compress everything that I’ve learned, that I think heshould know, into a real, succinct format, that he will definitelyread? And, of course, then I thought, other people will read, too.So, I got onto this idea, of the Do This Project.Which is, instead of talking around a subject, just giving directives,saying, do this, do that, don’t do this, don’t do that. Which is kindafunny, because it feels very presumptuous, right? Like, who am Ito tell others what to do? But then, I think, well, who am I not to?Right, it’s useful, so get over myself. Kinda like you asked aboutme onstage when I was 18, what was the biggest lesson learned?Like, this isn’t about me, people aren’t here about me, they’re herefor their own gain.Oh, you asked about my advice to TED speakers. That’s my mainadvice to TED speakers. It’s like, people aren’t here to see you, oryour life story. People come to TED, or watch TED videos, tolearn something. So, just speak only about what is surprising, andskip everything else.where can people find the directives?Derek Sivers: Only in this podcast. No, it’s true. I haven’t done anything with itpublicly. At first, I thought I was gonna make this into a big,keynote speech I was doing at a conference. The WorldDomination Summit Conference, in Portland.I spent four months of fulltime work, from 7:00AM to midnight,for four – seven days a week, for four months in a row, justrereading all 220 book notes, extracting, or trying to turn all of thisadvice or this knowledge, this wisdom, trying to turn it intodirectives. Because a lot of it, almost never is in the directiveformat already. People talk around a subject, they talk aboutfindings and research. But, it takes some real effort, kind of likethe old philosophers, the – you’ve read the stoicism book? TheGuide to The Good Life?Tim Ferriss: Yes, I have. I have that up on my living room wall, as well.Derek Sivers: And, in that book, right in the intro, he says, if you were to ask anykind of modern person who calls themselves a philosopher, whatshould I do with my life?He said, sit down and get comfortable, because they will tell you,well, it depends on what you mean by what, and it depends whatyou mean by do, and really, it depends what you mean by life. Or, really, maybe it depends on what you mean by my life. So, peopletalk around the point a lot, but back in 600 BC, if you would’veasked one of these philosophers, what should I do with my life,they would sit down and tell you exactly what to do with your life.Do this, don’t do that, pursue this, don’t pursue that.So, I was really inspired by that intro too. So, the idea was, now,how can I go back, through all of these amazing books I’ve read,and compress them into specific directives? So, it took me fourmonths of work to come up with the following like, 18 sentences.Do you wanna hear them?Tim Ferriss: I do wanna hear them. I’m super-excited about this.Derek Sivers: So, this was going to be a 35-minute long keynote speech, and itturned out to be a horrible, 35-minute long talk. But, it’sentertaining for about three minutes. So, here’s the three-minuteversion. Okay, first, I had fun categorizing them. So, this is thecategory called “How to Be Useful to Others.” Ready?Tim Ferriss: I’m ready.Derek S...