EPISODE · Jan 21, 2026 · 31 MIN
Ditch the Approval Game: Love Yourself Like a Pro
from Pickleball & Partnership: On Transformation, Growth & the Game of Becoming · host Charlotte Jukes
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Pickleball and Partnership, host Charlotte Jukes unpacks a common stumbling block: the desperate need for approval from others. Charlotte explores the evolutionary basis of approval seeking, its modern-day pitfalls, and offers actionable insights on shifting focus from external validation to self-compassion. Through practical examples and insightful anecdotes, listeners will learn how to genuinely appreciate others, practice self-compassion, and ultimately find freedom in liking themselves. Key takeaways include understanding the neuroscience of approval seeking, the benefits of appreciating others, and concrete steps to develop a healthier relationship with oneself.00:00 Introduction: The Approval Paradox01:46 The Lie: We Need Others to Like Us07:36 The Alternative: Liking Others to Feel Good15:01 The Deeper Truth: Liking Yourself to Be Free25:54 Practical Steps to Self-Compassion28:17 Conclusion and Key TakeawaysPickleball & Partnership Facebook PagePlease jump on over and say "Hi" - I would love to hear from you...email: [email protected] https://www.facebook.com/conejukeshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/848118700833703https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pickleball-partnership/id1775742795Get your FREE Top 10 Tips for Playing Pickleball with Your Partner subscribepage.io/Top-10-Tips-Partner-PickleballMusic: Purple Planet MusicThanks to Purple Planet Music for Pickleball & Partnership Intro and Outro music Purple Planet Music is a collection of music written and performed by Chris Martyn and Geoff Harvey.
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Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Pickleball and Partnership, host Charlotte Jukes unpacks a common stumbling block: the desperate need for approval from others. Charlotte explores the evolutionary basis of approval seeking, its modern-day pitfalls, and offers actionable insights on shifting focus from external validation to self-compassion. Through practical examples and insightful anecdotes, listeners will learn how to genuinely appreciate others, practice self-compassion, and...
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