Do Better Pod Live Jan 2025: Catching up and Parenting

On this episode of the Do Better Podcast, Dr. Megan and Joe catch up and discuss Parenting issues we face as behavior analyst. AI SUMMARY FROM FATHOM: Key Takeaways - The group tentatively selected a mountain goat as Do Better's mascot, symbolizing persistence and overcoming obstacles - Parenting as a behavior analyst involves balancing analytical thinking with being present as a parent - Contextual, collaborative approaches to parenting that explain rationales and teach problem-solving skills are preferred over rigid rule-setting - Helping neurodivergent children navigate societal expectations while honoring their authentic selves is an ongoing challenge Topics Mascot Selection - Mountain goat emerged as leading choice, representing persistence and overcoming challenges - Other suggestions included owl, fox, wolf - group favored an animal aligned with "trailblazer" theme - Plan to create cartoon version; name suggestion "Doby" (pronounced "dough-be") Parenting as a Behavior Analyst - Challenge of balancing analytical thinking vs. being present as a parent - Example: Flexibility around bedtime snacks, considering medication effects on appetite - Importance of contextual decision-making rather than rigid rules - Teaching children to make requests in advance and respect parents' time/planning needs - Setting clear family values (e.g. "we don't lie") and explaining rationales behind rulesSupporting Neurodivergent Children - Difficulty navigating societal expectations while honoring child's authentic self - Explaining "neurotypical standards" as arbitrary social constructs - Teaching self-advocacy skills when possible - Using resources like Go Zen to address issues like negativity from a neurological perspective Next Steps - Finalize mascot selection and create cartoon version - Schedule February podcast to discuss decision fatigue and long-term thinking in parenting - Megan to upload full Do Better event calendar for the year by January 31st