E003 - The Anger Triad - Types 8, 9, 1

E003 - The Anger Triad: Control, Power & PerfectionThree types. One core emotion. Completely different strategies.The anger triad (Types 8, 9, and 1) doesn't mean these types are angry all the time. It means anger is their core emotional response to getting their needs met. And each handles it in radically different ways.Type 8s externalize it. They're the Hummer, rolling over obstacles, always in control.Type 9s internalize it. They're the RV, avoiding conflict, keeping the peace at any cost.Type 1s regulate it. They're the BMW, striving for perfection, maintaining rigid self-control.Same emotion. Three completely different strategies for control and empowerment.What You'll DiscoverDoug Lynam breaks down how Types 8, 9, and 1 seek control in distinct ways and how those patterns show up in your money and leadership decisions. You'll learn the money monsters for each type, from the Detonator/Dominator (8) to the Spud/Dud (9) to the Prude/Pious (1). Understanding these patterns helps you recognize not just yourself, but your team members, clients, and business partners.Episode Timestamps[00:00] Introduction - The Anger Triad overview[06:04] Type 8: The Challenger - Lust for intensity and control[19:04] Type 9: The Peacemaker - Avoiding conflict through sloth[31:53] Type 1: The Perfectionist - The inner critic and resentment[46:56] Workshop Preview - Taming Your Money Monsters course announcementAbout Your HostsDoug Lynam is a financial advisor, TEDx speaker, and author of Taming Your Money Monster. He combines Enneagram psychology with financial planning to help clients break free from destructive money patterns.📖 Get Doug's Book: Taming Your Money Monster on Amazon - https://a.co/d/00t3PCPsFor investment advisory, portfolio management, or financial planning services from Doug Lynam, please visit: https://cmiallc.comFor Enneagram money coaching or to book Doug as a speaker: https://dougjlynam.comDarin Newbold is the creator of the BoldGPS™ framework, using the Enneagram as a map of you, your purpose is your lighthouse direction, he helps leaders and teams know themselves, their purpose and how to unlock their patterns to create lasting impact.Turn identity into action with 🧭 BoldGPS™ Starter Map: Includes your Enneagram typing, Purpose Factor assessment and 90min coaching to build your map - https://yourboldsolutions.com/boldgps-start-mapFor executive and leadership coaching, book a Discovery Call - https://yourboldsolutions.com/discoveryComing Next EpisodeThe Grief Triad (Types 2, 3, and 4). These types are searching for validation and connection, and their strategies look nothing like the anger triad. If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing, image management, or feeling fundamentally different from everyone else, you won't want to miss it.Keywords: leadership patterns, enneagram, financial advisor, purpose, leadership development, money psychology, emotional intelligence, self-awareness, entrepreneurship, business leadership, type 8, type 9, type 1, anger triad