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EPISODE · Nov 21, 2025 · 1H 38M

E268: Beyond the Stigma: Rethinking Same-Sex Attraction in the Church | Lila Rose Show

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Are sins related to homosexuality worse than other serious sins? You might think so from how the Church and many well-meaning believers address the topic. Too often, people experiencing same-sex attraction are treated like modern-day lepers. So how should we actually talk about it and how do we support those who struggle?What can their experiences teach us about our own wounds and the ways human longing can be misdirected? Therapist Michael Gasparro and ministry leaders Andrew Comiskey and Kim Zember share how their past struggles with same-sex attraction became a path to deeper healing and intimacy with God.In this episode, you’ll discover more about who you are, how to live compassionately, and how God designed our bodies and relationships for healthy, life-giving intimacy.Michael's channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UkD3oHy6WeEKim's ministry: https://boldlybeloved.com/Andrew's ministry: https://www.desertstream.org/Join our new Patreon community! https://patreon.com/lilaroseshow - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Angel Studios: https://angel.com/lila Join the Guild to vote on future blockbuster films, access all of Angel’s films and shows, and even get free tickets to upcoming releases. -Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee and save up to 25% with promo code 'LILA' & get up to four FREE gifts this Christmas season: http://www.sevenweekscoffee.com-Cozy Earth: Better Sleep, Brighter Days - Get the highest quality sleep essentials for 40% OFF at https://cozyearth.com/lila!00:00:00 - Intro00:07:53 - Kim’s background00:13:26 - We all long for Jesus00:21:10 - Reintegration vs Conversion Therapy00:30:25 - What is psychologically "normal”?00:37:22 - What is 'order'?00:40:22 - Science and Intelligible Patterns00:45:24 - LGBTQ Label and Fr Martin 00:57:27 - False Hope01:04:18 - Power of Identity01:07:13 - Convincing children to sexualize their attractions01:08:58 - New study on 'coming out'01:11:37 - Lila opens up:01:17:25 - Homophobia01:31:42 - Best resources for Christians?

Are sins related to homosexuality worse than other serious sins? You might think so from how the Church and many well-meaning believers address the topic. Too often, people experiencing same-sex attraction are treated like modern-day lepers. So how should we actually talk about it and how do we support those who struggle?What can their experiences teach us about our own wounds and the ways human longing can be misdirected? Therapist Michael Gasparro and ministry leaders Andrew Comiskey and Kim Zember share how their past struggles with same-sex attraction became a path to deeper healing and intimacy with God.In this episode, you’ll discover more about who you are, how to live compassionately, and how God designed our bodies and relationships for healthy, life-giving intimacy.Michael's channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UkD3oHy6WeEKim's ministry: https://boldlybeloved.com/Andrew's ministry: https://www.desertstream.org/Join our new Patreon community! https://patreon.com/lilaroseshow - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Angel Studios: https://angel.com/lila Join the Guild to vote on future blockbuster films, access all of Angel’s films and shows, and even get free tickets to upcoming releases. -Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee and save up to 25% with promo code 'LILA' & get up to four FREE gifts this Christmas season: http://www.sevenweekscoffee.com-Cozy Earth: Better Sleep, Brighter Days - Get the highest quality sleep essentials for 40% OFF at https://cozyearth.com/lila!00:00:00 - Intro00:07:53 - Kim’s background00:13:26 - We all long for Jesus00:21:10 - Reintegration vs Conversion Therapy00:30:25 - What is psychologically "normal”?00:37:22 - What is 'order'?00:40:22 - Science and Intelligible Patterns00:45:24 - LGBTQ Label and Fr Martin 00:57:27 - False Hope01:04:18 - Power of Identity01:07:13 - Convincing children to sexualize their attractions01:08:58 - New study on 'coming out'01:11:37 - Lila opens up:01:17:25 - Homophobia01:31:42 - Best resources for Christians?

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