Eating & Feeding: Instagram vs. Reality

Let's face it, navigating the world of picky and selective eaters can feel like trying to solve a Rubik's cube...while blindfolded! In this intro to our "Eating &amp; Feeding" series, we'll discuss the ins and outs of feeding our young neurodiverse kiddos while breaking down the differences between picky and selective eaters, and share our own relatable mom struggles to dish out real-life strategies that actually work.We'll also tackle common misconceptions by reviewing instagram advice vs reality and provide actionable strategies to help you create a more positive mealtime experience by understanding the developmental phases of eating to practical tips on how to encourage variety - without pressure.Timestamps:(01:25) - Welcome(12:24) - Selective Eating vs. Picky Eating(17:09) - ARFID and Picky Eating(28:03) - Mealtime Challenges(30:11) - Dinner Routines and Strategies(43:41) - Separate Meals As A Strategy(48:31) - Encouraging Kids to Try New Foods(51:48) - "They'll Eat When They're Hungry.."(01:01:20) - The Shift in Feeding Therapy Approaches(01:05:33) - Take Home MessageEpisode References:Pjetraj, D., Pjetraj, A., Sayed, D., (...), Lionetti, M.E. (2025) Decoding Picky Eating in Children: A Temporary Phase or a Hidden Health Concern?. Nutrients.Breiner, C.E., Knedgen, M.M., Proctor, K.B., Zickgraf, H.F. (2024) Relation between ARFID symptomatology and picky eating onset and duration. Eating Behaviors.Silvers, E., Erlich, K. (2023) Picky eating or something more? Differentiating ARFID from typical childhood development. Nurse Practitioner.Zickgraf, H.F., Richard, E., Zucker, N.L., Wallace, G.L. (2022) Rigidity and Sensory Sensitivity: Independent Contributions to Selective Eating in Children, Adolescents, and Young Adults. Journal of Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology.Bayoumi, S.C., Halkett, A., Miller, M., Hinshaw, S.P. (2025) Food selectivity and eating difficulties in adults with autism and/or ADHD. Autism.Chiong, T.X.B., Tan, M.L.N., Lim, T.S.H., (...), Aw, M.M. (2024) Selective Feeding—An Under-Recognised Contributor to Picky Eating. Nutrients.Tarawneh, A., Al-Dhmour, H., Almajali, R.M., (...), Mahgoub, S.S. (2024) Zinc and Growth with Picky Eating in a Jordan Pediatric Clinic: An Observational Study. Jordan Medical Journal.Zohar, A.H., Pick, S., Lev-Ari, L., Bachner-Melman, R. (2020) A longitudinal study of maternal feeding and children's picky eating. Appetite.Pesch, M.H., Bauer, K.W., Christoph, M.J., (...), Neumark-Sztainer, D. (2020) Young adult nutrition and weight correlates of picky eating during childhood. Public Health Nutrition.Page, S.D., Souders, M.C., Kral, T.V.E., (...), Pinto-Martin, J. (2022) Correlates of Feeding Difficulties Among Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder: A Systematic Review. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders.Sarnataro, R., Siracusano, M., Campanile, R., (...), Mazzone, L. (2025) Relationship Between Food Selectivity, Adaptive Functioning and Behavioral Profile in Individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorder. Behavioral Sciences.Zhang, S., Hu, R., Zhao, S. (2024) Autistic traits and ARFID-associated eating behaviors in preschoolers: Mediating effects of sensory processing patterns. Appetite.Harris, H.A., Bowling, A., Santos, S., (...), Jansen, P.W. (2022) Child ADHD and autistic traits, eating behaviours and weight: A population-based study. Pediatric Obesity.Ariyanti, F.W., Fatmawati, A., Sari, I.P. (2023) Factors Associated with Picky Eating in Preschool Children. Amerta Nutrition.Patel, M.D., Donovan, S.M., Lee, S.-Y. (2020) Considering nature and nurture in the etiology and prevention of picky eating: A narrative review. Nutrients.Chilman, L., Kennedy-Behr, A., Frakking, T., (...), Verdonck, M. (2021) Picky eating in children: A scoping review to examine its intrinsic and extrinsic features and how they relate to identification. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health.Wang, J., Wu, R.-X., Cheng, X.-W., (...), Zhu, D.-Q. (2021) Moderating effect of children's temperament on the relationships between parental feeding practices and their preschoolers' picky eating. Zhongguo Ertong Baojian Zazhi.Diamantis, D.V., Emmett, P.M., Taylor, C.M. (2023) Effect of being a persistent picky eater on feeding difficulties in school-aged children. Appetite<a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.appet.2023.106483" rel="noopener noreferrer"...