EP 15: The Four Letter Word No One Wants to Talk About: Porn. With Jessica Indries

In this episode of Let's Talk Relationships, we delve into the profound and often overlooked effects of pornography addiction, particularly within the Christian community. Our guest, Jes Indries, bravely shares her personal journey, unveiling the insecurities and fears that underpin such struggles. Together, we explore the intricate ways pornography impacts relationships, fostering emotional distance and cultivating unrealistic expectations. Through candid discussion, we strive to break down the stigma surrounding this issue, advocating for openness and embracing God's unconditional love and acceptance.About Jessica IndriesJessica Indries is a Fashion Designer with a background in branding, graphic design, and the apparel industry. Beyond her professional pursuits, she is also dedicated to her family and committed to helping others break free from generational patterns and past traumas to realize their full potential.One significant aspect of Jessica's journey to healing is her involvement in the REMEDY program, a faith-centered recovery program designed to assist individuals in addressing past trauma and unhealthy coping habits. Through this program, she has learned practical tools to process her unaddressed trauma. Jessica is enthusiastic about sharing helpful resources with others on their journey to healing and has made the 'Wheel of Feelings,' a tool from REMEDY, available for free on her website: http://www.wewhoinfluence.com/resources/p/the-wheel-of-feelingsTo stay updated on Jessica's journey and to explore the intersection of healing and influence further, you can follow her personal account on social media (@jesindries) and tune in to her upcoming podcast, "We Who Influence" (@wewhoinfluence). Through her podcast, Jessica will be exploring the intersection of healing and influence in our world.Social Accounts: @JesIndries@WeWhoInfluenceWebsite:  www.WeWhoInfluence.comNOTES:Atlas of the Heart - Brene BrownConnor Beaton - Man Talks ________________________________________________________________00:00 Introduction to the Topic: The Impact of Pornography00:25 Guest Introduction: Jess Shares Her Story01:03 The Prevalence of Pornography in Society01:44 Jess's Personal Journey with Porn Addiction03:11 The Church's Approach to Sex and Pornography04:20 The Connection Between Porn and Other Addictions05:55 The Role of Shame in Porn Addiction06:08 The Impact of Porn Addiction on Women10:41 The Role of Fear and Rejection in Addiction15:19 The Importance of Emotional Awareness in Overcoming Addiction25:58 The Impact of Porn Addiction on Relationships30:25 The Struggle with Addiction31:35 The Importance of Emotional Intimacy32:05 The Taboo of Sex in Church32:44 The Power of Open Communication32:57 The Impact of Premarital Sex33:20 The Spiritual Aspect of Sex34:10 The Misconceptions about Sex34:47 The Consequences of One Night Stands35:27 The Importance of Waiting for Marriage35:47 The Influence of Society on Sexual Behavior36:07 The Emotional Impact of Sex36:32 The Importance of Understan1:1 Coaching with BeatriceDating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit.Book a Call Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/