Ep 2 - Root Wounds, Archetypes & Rewiring the Mind

What if the patterns shaping your life were created before you even had a choice? In this episode of Let’s Get Wyrd, Betsy and Dave dive deep into the Root Coaching Program, exploring how early life experiences create subconscious patterns, archetypes, and emotional triggers that influence our relationships, behaviors, and decisions. From the Defender archetype to the Suspended state, this conversation reveals how our wounds show up in real-time and how to bring awareness, shift patterns, and reclaim control of your reality. If you’ve ever felt stuck in repeating cycles, over-explained yourself, avoided confrontation, or struggled with communication… this episode will open your eyes. Key Takeaways Your core patterns are formed early in life Awareness = the first step to transformation Archetypes are activated when wounds are triggered The Defender = over-explaining + needing to be understood The Suspended = avoidance + delayed action Most conflict comes from misperception, not reality Healing starts when you stop projecting and start observing Communication = energy clearing 00:17 – What is the Root Coaching Program & why it was created 01:23 – How childhood programs your subconscious patterns 02:56 – Signs your root wounds are controlling your life 03:23 – How to rewire your brain & shift your reality 04:30 – Archetypes explained (your behavioral “poker tells”) 06:57 – The Defender archetype: why you over-explain & build resentment 08:30 – “Taking tally” and how it silently destroys relationships 09:39 – The Unsolvable Problem pattern (why nothing feels fixable) 20:43 – Live example of a trigger happening in real time 25:30 – The Suspended archetype: avoidance, delay, and emotional buildup Learn More Visit: www.milluminate.me Explore upcoming classes & coaching programs Follow for more content on: Consciousness Healing & transformation Archetypes & human behavior Follow & Subscribe 👍 Like the video 🔔 Subscribe for more episodes 💬 Comment your biggest takeaway or questions for future episodes