EPISODE · May 10, 2022 · 13 MIN
EP 29: How to be the Shero of your own story
from Coming Out Gold · host Tammy Hall
Have you ever found yourself in a storm waiting for someone to ride to your rescue? As a coach, I have encountered many women who believe the false narrative that they need someone to save them. This is natural given the patriarchal upbring most have experienced. Add to that the romanticized version of women being damsels in distress and it makes it hard to break this pattern. But the real truth is you deserve to be a woman who feels capable and equipped to handle whatever life throws your way. Raise your hand if you are ready to: Feel empowered. Find answers to your questions so you can solve your own problems. Stand on your own two feet and feel confident handling whatever comes. Women have been sold a romanticized version of life. We have long been portrayed as needing rescue. When life throws us challenges we wait for a knight in shining armor to ride up on a white horse and save us. Over time we internalize this messaging to the point that we feel incapable of rescuing ourselves. Thanks to our participation in Good Girl Syndrome that I spoke of in episode 28, most of us are lacking confidence in being able to handle things alone. We don’t even know we are abdicating our responsibilities. We simply believe this is the way it is for a woman in the world. It is wrong to press the pause button on your life as you wait on a partner to fulfill you. You deserve to chase your dreams regardless of your relationship status. As a woman who has been single for over a decade now, I get the desire to have a partner. But as a woman who has done so much work, I fully own my life. I don’t need anyone to ride to my rescue. I am capable and responsible for being the Shero of my own story. And I know if I can develop the skills and resilience needed to save myself, you can do the same! I am here to show you a different option. In this episode, I will give you a four-step plan to help you become the Shero of your own story. If you will work to build confidence, increase your skills, and take ownership of your life, you will become the Shero of your own life. Listen to this episode and then take action by following the plan outlined you will find you: Increase your confidence Gain new skillsets Feel empowered Make personal growth Inspire other women to do the same Earn your Shero cape Don't spend another day frozen in place, waiting for someone else to handle your life. Stop believing the false narrative that you are not capable of being responsible for your life and begin to discover the power you have to resolve them. It is time you see you don’t need anyone’s permission to live the life of your dreams. Head here to find the blog version of this episode. Follow us on: Instagram: @Coming-Out-Gold-Podcast or @RS_Coach_and_Strategist Facebook: @Coming-Out-Gold-Podcast or @rscoachandstrategist Royalty-free music from Pixaby.com
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Have you ever found yourself in a storm waiting for someone to ride to your rescue? As a coach, I have encountered many women who believe the false narrative that they need someone to save them. This is natural given the patriarchal upbring most have experienced. Add to that the romanticized version of women being damsels in distress and it makes it hard to break this pattern. But the real truth is you deserve to be a woman who feels capable and equipped to handle whatever life throws your way. Raise your hand if you are ready to: Feel empowered. Find answers to your questions so you can solve your own problems. Stand on your own two feet and feel confident handling whatever comes. Women have been sold a romanticized version of life. We have long been portrayed as needing rescue. When life throws us challenges we wait for a knight in shining armor to ride up on a white horse and save us. Over time we internalize this messaging to the point that we feel incapable of rescuing ourselves. Thanks to our participation in Good Girl Syndrome that I spoke of in episode 28, most of us are lacking confidence in being able to handle things alone. We don’t even know we are abdicating our responsibilities. We simply believe this is the way it is for a woman in the world. It is wrong to press the pause button on your life as you wait on a partner to fulfill you. You deserve to chase your dreams regardless of your relationship status. As a woman who has been single for over a decade now, I get the desire to have a partner. But as a woman who has done so much work, I fully own my life. I don’t need anyone to ride to my rescue. I am capable and responsible for being the Shero of my own story. And I know if I can develop the skills and resilience needed to save myself, you can do the same! I am here to show you a different option. In this episode, I will give you a four-step plan to help you become the Shero of your own story. If you will work to build confidence, increase your skills, and take ownership of your life, you will become the Shero of your own life. Listen to this episode and then take action by following the plan outlined you will find you: Increase your confidence Gain new skillsets Feel empowered Make personal growth Inspire other women to do the same Earn your Shero cape Don't spend another day frozen in place, waiting for someone else to handle your life. Stop believing the false narrative that you are not capable of being responsible for your life and begin to discover the power you have to resolve them. It is time you see you don’t need anyone’s permission to live the life of your dreams. Head here to find the blog version of this episode. Follow us on: Instagram: @Coming-Out-Gold-Podcast or @RS_Coach_and_Strategist Facebook: @Coming-Out-Gold-Podcast or @rscoachandstrategist Royalty-free music from Pixaby.com
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