EPISODE · Aug 22, 2022 · 29 MIN
Ep. #29: Pleasing is Boring (And Holding You Back)
from Hack Your Human Design · host Melanie Hill
You’re not here to play nice! We’re wired for one thing: making sure we’re not banished from the tribe.Essentially, we’re afraid of upsetting people, of letting certain parts of us die, parts that we created to be pleasing for other people. Your conditioning, and biology, taught you that you have to be pleasing, and you might feel like who you really are, fully expressed, can’t do that. So you don’t let yourself embody that. You hide. You hold back. You feel bad. What does this mean for your business, and for your people finding you and knowing you’re right for them? What if the opposite of being pleasing, being yourself, is actually what helps you connect MORE?What if instead of trying to control how people see you, you focus on how you FEEL moving through the world?What if you can create a feeling of safety in being seen, and letting go of the judgement you have about yourself?Listen on to find permission to embody your full self, shift your self-concept, and stop making other people’s opinions of you your priority. Click here for Free Instant Access to "WTF is Human Design Masterclass"Click here for Instant Access to the "Unblock Your Heart & Let the Money Flow Masterclass"Schedule your free Connection Call with Melanie by Clicking Here
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You’re not here to play nice! We’re wired for one thing: making sure we’re not banished from the tribe.Essentially, we’re afraid of upsetting people, of letting certain parts of us die, parts that we created to be pleasing for other people. Your conditioning, and biology, taught you that you have to be pleasing, and you might feel like who you really are, fully expressed, can’t do that. So you don’t let yourself embody that. You hide. You hold back. You feel bad. What does this mean for your business, and for your people finding you and knowing you’re right for them? What if the opposite of being pleasing, being yourself, is actually what helps you connect MORE?What if instead of trying to control how people see you, you focus on how you FEEL moving through the world?What if you can create a feeling of safety in being seen, and letting go of the judgement you have about yourself?Listen on to find permission to embody your full self, shift your self-concept, and stop making other people’s opinions of you your priority. Click here for Free Instant Access to "WTF is Human Design Masterclass"Click here for Instant Access to the "Unblock Your Heart & Let the Money Flow Masterclass"Schedule your free Connection Call with Melanie by Clicking Here
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