EPISODE · Nov 5, 2024 · 22 MIN
Ep. 38 Influencing Change Series (Part 2 of 3)
from The Unlock Lab · host Tosca DiMatteo
Welcome to part two of my three part series on influencing change. It’s time to step up and get involved in our communities for the greater good. Tune in to find out why what you really want can be your north star for creating real, lasting change. I'll guide you through the vital balance between your heart and mind when it comes to making an impact. Grounding yourself is critical before you lift others up! Join me as we unpack these ideas and get ready to take action. Highlights: Identify and clarify what truly matters to you. Find out what's wrong with 'figuring it all out' in our head. How listening amplifies your impact. Negotiation is a type of influence Quotables: [00:03:02] "We have to start with understanding the deepest layer of what it is that we want, because this is our compass. This is our compass for everything and what we tend to do is stay at the surface level of our desires." [00:09:55] "Influencing change is most powerful when you are open to that co creation process that I've been talking about. Being open is a journey because we tend to live in our heads, our society and our past experiences and our big T traumas and our little T traumas often lead us to live in our head." [00:17:27] "We have a tendency to make everything about ourselves and when we do that, influencing others is going to be a much harder because other people feel where your intentions are and where your heart is." Tosca’s Links and Resources: Tosca’s Website Get in Touch with Tosca Submit your question for Tosca to answer on her ALL ACCESS episode Giving Flowers To: Theme music by: Adrian DiMatteo Podcast audio edited by: Landis Podcast Editing
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Welcome to part two of my three part series on influencing change. It’s time to step up and get involved in our communities for the greater good. Tune in to find out why what you really want can be your north star for creating real, lasting change. I'll guide you through the vital balance between your heart and mind when it comes to making an impact. Grounding yourself is critical before you lift others up! Join me as we unpack these ideas and get ready to take action. Highlights: Identify and clarify what truly matters to you. Find out what's wrong with 'figuring it all out' in our head. How listening amplifies your impact. Negotiation is a type of influence Quotables: [00:03:02] "We have to start with understanding the deepest layer of what it is that we want, because this is our compass. This is our compass for everything and what we tend to do is stay at the surface level of our desires." [00:09:55] "Influencing change is most powerful when you are open to that co creation process that I've been talking about. Being open is a journey because we tend to live in our heads, our society and our past experiences and our big T traumas and our little T traumas often lead us to live in our head." [00:17:27] "We have a tendency to make everything about ourselves and when we do that, influencing others is going to be a much harder because other people feel where your intentions are and where your heart is." Tosca’s Links and Resources: Tosca’s Website Get in Touch with Tosca Submit your question for Tosca to answer on her ALL ACCESS episode Giving Flowers To: Theme music by: Adrian DiMatteo Podcast audio edited by: Landis Podcast Editing
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