Ep. 5 Why You Keep Attracting The Same Kind Of Person

Episode 5: Why You Keep Attracting the Same Type of PersonIf your relationships keep feeling the same—draining, confusing, inconsistent, or one-sided—it’s probably not just bad luck. There’s a pattern underneath it.In this episode, we dive into the connection between self-abandonment, nervous system patterns, and the roles we unconsciously play inside our relationships. Because it’s not just about who we attract—it’s also about what we tolerate, overlook, and continue choosing.I talk about how relationships can act like mirrors, why familiarity can feel like chemistry, and the deeper reasons we stay in dynamics that don’t actually feel good for us.We also explore:over-giving and people-pleasingavoidant dynamics and emotional unavailabilitywhy “chemistry” can sometimes be nervous system activationthe small moments where self-abandonment beginshow to start interrupting old relationship patternsIf you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Why does this keep happening to me?”—this episode is for you.If something in this episode resonated and you’re feeling the pull to go deeper—You can connect with me on Instagram: @gracielaserenamusicAnd explore ways to work with me (including Coming Home and Devotional) through the link below.⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.gracielaserena.com⁠⁠⁠⁠If this podcast is supporting you, you can help it grow by following, sharing it with someone in your life, or leaving a review—it truly makes a difference.And as always—Your truth isn’t too much. Your voice isn’t the problem.Stay there…in that place where it’s real.