Ep 83: You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!!

💬 Kat loves sexting. Leo... tolerates it. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we talk about how sexting started as a total no-go (too intimate, too risky, too "why does this man have direct access to my wife?!") but has turned into one of the hottest parts of our lifestyle toolbox. 👉 We talk about why group sexting is hilarious and hot, why solo DMs need boundaries, and how Leo came around to the idea that sexting isn’t cheating - it’s bespoke porn, personalized smut, and admiration in 4K. 👉 This is for the couples who need a little rule-reset, and the singles who think a dick pic = flirtation (spoiler: it doesn’t). Whether you’re into shared group chats, 4-way fantasy threads, or custom-written smut that makes you feel wanted AF - sexting can be part of the lifestyle. As long as nothing is hidden… and everyone’s getting turned on.   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!):     🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/you-up-lifestyle-sexting-dos-donts-and-wtfs 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us