EP33: The Unspoken Load | Rethinking Parenthood

In this episode of Something to Consider, we sit down with Riham Monzer—licensed child psychologist, parental guidance specialist, and someone who’s worked with over 6,000 families—to reflect on the emotional weight of parenting, the patterns we inherit, and the healing that makes space for something new.This isn’t just a conversation about parenting—it’s a deep dive into identity, trauma, ego, and the quiet pressure of raising children in an unstable world. Riham speaks openly about why parenting is not instinctive, how maternal instinct is misunderstood, and why healing ourselves is one of the most important acts of love we can offer our children.We explore fatherhood beyond provision, the danger of legacy-driven parenting, and the long-term impact of disrespect on a child’s psychological safety. Through it all, Riham reminds us that parenting is a skill—one rooted in presence, empathy, and unlearning what no longer serves us.If you’re a parent, a future parent, or someone reckoning with your own upbringing, this episode offers a gentle, powerful reframe.We hope you’ll find something to consider.Connect with the Guest:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/riham_monzer/Website: https://www.rihammonzer.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@riham.monzerFind us at (Instagram podcast page) https://www.instagram.com/somethingtoconsider.podcast/Listen to us (all available platforms)Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/something-to-consider/id1674861838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/618zDVAJO0teMngLOzyKz4?si=8bfddd1364d34fc7Connect with the Host:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dalhanbali/LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/danaalhanbaliTwitter: https://twitter.com/DanaAlhanbaliTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@danaalhanbaliYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@danaalhanbali