Episode #15: Was God In My Marriage Vows? The "Marriage Covenant"

In this powerful episode, Deana and Lizzie dive deep into the "marriage covenant" which can be a beautiful, sacred promise between two people and God.  But when is it NOT a covenant that God has ordained?  Join us as we discuss the complex realities of marriage, shedding light on the often-misunderstood concept of the marriage covenant—especially in the context of emotional and spiritual abuse. They explore how faith can both help and hinder healing, why some stay in toxic relationships, and how to recognize the true signs of love vs. control.If you’ve ever felt trapped by religious or cultural expectations, or questioned whether staying in a painful marriage is the right thing, this episode offers compassionate insight, real talk, and hope for anyone navigating this difficult path.TakeawaysThe marriage covenant is often misunderstood.Emotional abuse can occur even in seemingly good relationships.Staying in an abusive relationship can hinder personal growth.True love is demonstrated through consistent kindness and support.Many people feel trapped by the idea of the marriage covenant.Spiritual advice can sometimes perpetuate unhealthy situations.Recognizing the signs of abuse is crucial for healing.It's important to seek support from trusted individuals.Writing down experiences can provide clarity and perspective.Leaving an abusive relationship can lead to a more peaceful life.Chapters00:00Introduction to a Heavy Topic00:38Understanding the Marriage Covenant05:06The Nature of True Covenant Relationships11:04Why People Stay in Abusive Relationships16:49The Role of Spirituality in Marriage22:23Recognizing Abuse and Seeking HelpSupport the show🎙️ Stay Connected with Us! 📺 Subscribe on YouTube: @survivingrelationships12 🎵 Follow us on TikTok: @survivingtoxicrel 🌐 Visit our website: Looking to be a guest or host a guest for your podcast?https://www.joinpodmatch.com/deanalizzieContact us anytime at our email:  [email protected] 📘 Join our Facebook community: Surviving Toxic Relationships with The Matadoras: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556560386678Disclaimer:  The views expressed by our guests are their own, and this show is for educational purposes only. It is not therapy, medical, or professional advice, and listening does not create a therapeutic relationship. If you need personalized support, please reach out to a licensed professional. If you’re in crisis or immediate danger, please call 911 for help.