Episode 2: The Power of Relational Contracting in Relationships

Send us Fan MailSummaryDr. Wendy Patterson, a specialist in Imago therapy, discusses the importance of relational contracting in relationships. She explains that implicit and unconscious contracts often form in relationships, and it is crucial to bring these agreements to the surface and evaluate their effectiveness. Patterson emphasizes the need for a growth mindset and the willingness to adapt and change contracts as individuals and relationships evolve. She also highlights the importance of clear communication, celebrating successes, and focusing on the positive aspects of the relationship. Patterson encourages individuals to take responsibility for their own growth and to lead by example, even if their partner is initially resistant to change.Keywordsrelational contracting, implicit contracts, explicit contracts, growth mindset, communication, positive aspects, responsibility, leading by exampleTakeawaysImplicit and unconscious contracts often form in relationships, and it is important to bring these agreements to the surface and evaluate their effectiveness.Having a growth mindset and being willing to adapt and change contracts is crucial for the growth and success of a relationship.Clear communication, celebrating successes, and focusing on the positive aspects of the relationship are essential for building a strong partnership.Individuals can take responsibility for their own growth and lead by example, even if their partner is initially resistant to change.Support the showThank you for joining me today on the Relationship Blueprint. Remember,  don't let life happen to you. You can be the architect of your relationships. So join me next time on the Relationship Blueprint; Unlock Your Power of Connection.Contact Colleen at [email protected] for questions or to be a guest on the show!