Episode 202: The Grammar of Control

“Today’s episode explores the act of misgendering not as a mistake but as a deliberate refusal rooted in systemic beliefs. The author of the source article, Dr. Jaime Hoerricks, argues that this refusal, often seen in the rejection of chosen names and pronouns, stems from a fixed understanding of gender influenced by theological concepts like Calvinism and reinforced by societal structures and language itself. Dr. Hoerricks describes the personal experience of this harm and the internal questioning that follows, highlighting the societal demand for graciousness in the face of erasure. Through research and the connection with shared experiences, they uncover patterns revealing that misgendering serves as a tool of control and a defense of a binary worldview. Ultimately, Dr. Hoerricks frame the refusal to conform to these linguistic and social norms as a form of resistance, “neuroqueering,” advocating for a more fluid and inclusive use of language that honors individual identity.”Here’s the link to the source article: https://open.substack.com/pub/autside/p/the-grammar-of-control-why-they-wontLet me know what you think.The AutSide is a reader-supported publication. To support my work, consider becoming a paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit autside.substack.com/subscribe