Episode 26 Blown Away: Mom Guilt, Slow Changeovers & Wind Woes

Ever wonder what it's really like balancing the chaos of a band, family, and feeling like you're living a real-life episode of "Survivor"? Miss Mercy AKA Jaquelynn and The Manz - Kyle takes you on a hilarious ride through the highs and lows of concert chaos, last-minute gigs, and the unfiltered truth of living a musical life in the hustle and bustle of the Bay Area. This episode isn’t just about the music — it’s about the messy, beautiful chaos behind the scenes: grumpy sound crews, frantic stage changeovers, missed kids’ games, all the while pretending you’re in total control. Ha! Mercy and The Manz spill the tea on gig etiquette, the wild timing of rehearsals, and the secret weapon of performing for sound engineers — because if they like you, the show sounds better, and frankly, that’s all that matters. You’ll discover: why band members should treat load-ins like a game of Tetris, the surprising power of community in the local music scene, and how a perfect gig can make you forget all your professional and parenting woes — even if it’s windy enough to blow your voice away. Plus, hear how the Bay Area music community is more than just a crowd — it’s a family, a tribe, and sometimes a reality TV show... with poor lighting. Whether you’re a musician, a parent trying to keep all the balls in the air, or just someone craving stories with almost as much drama as your favorite Netflix series, this episode hits all the right notes — sometimes literally. Hit play and hang out with us for a little while. Perfect for anyone who’s ever set up sound gear, missed a kid’s game, or attended a gig just to see a friend’s face light up — because at the end of the day, it’s all about the community, the music, and showing up, no matter what chaos ensues.