EPISODE · Mar 27, 2026 · 2 MIN
Expectation (March 27)
from Enthusiastic Ideas · host Gary Henry
EXPECTATION (MARCH 27)View on Website -- https://wordpoints.com/expectation-march-27/"Expect people to be better than they are; it helps them to become better. But don’t be disappointed when they are not; it helps them to keep trying" (Merry Browne).OUR EXPECTATIONS ARE POWERFUL FORCES THAT ACT ON OTHER PEOPLE’S LIVES. High expectations pull people upward; low expectations drag them downward. It behooves us to be careful about what we expect of others. What we expect is often what we get.The suggestion that we should expect the best in those around us is often met with cynicism, if not outright mockery. “It’s naive to expect the best,” some would say. I well remember a college teacher who told me, “Gary, nobody ever went broke underestimating the ignorance of the human race.” He said it humorously, tongue-in-cheek, but I’m afraid there are a number of people who would say that and not be joking at all. In fact, most people seem to think cynicism is the safest path to follow: “Expect the worst, and then if anything better than that takes place, you’ll be pleasantly surprised.”But whatever safety there may be in cynicism, I know of no world-class performers in any field who take that approach. Vince Lombardi would never have told his football players, “Now, guys, I don’t really expect that you’re going to play up to your potential, but if you do, that will be okay. I’ll take it as a pleasant surprise.” No, high achievers from around the world have always expected the best — both of themselves and everybody they collaborated with.The truth is, it’s not naive to expect the best of others, especially our friends and family. The best that others can offer may not be perfect, but whatever their best is, they are capable of offering that to the world, and it’s not unrealistic to expect them to do so.We are motivated by “great expectations” (to borrow Charles Dickens’s phrase). They give us energy to “go for the good stuff.” And so it makes sense to do three things: (1) nourish high expectations of ourselves, (2) surround ourselves with friends who’ll keep our expectations high, and (3) influence others to expect higher things for themselves. In every way, it’s wise to encourage hope in the hearts of our fellow travelers. It’s among the greatest of all gifts, and it’s responsible for many of the best things in life."A master can tell you what he expects of you. A teacher, though, awakens your own expectations" (Patricia Neal).Gary Henry - WordPoints.com + AreYouaChristian.com
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EXPECTATION (MARCH 27)View on Website -- https://wordpoints.com/expectation-march-27/"Expect people to be better than they are; it helps them to become better. But don’t be disappointed when they are not; it helps them to keep trying" (Merry Browne).OUR EXPECTATIONS ARE POWERFUL FORCES THAT ACT ON OTHER PEOPLE’S LIVES. High expectations pull people upward; low expectations drag them downward. It behooves us to be careful about what we expect of others. What we expect is often what we get.The suggestion that we should expect the best in those around us is often met with cynicism, if not outright mockery. “It’s naive to expect the best,” some would say. I well remember a college teacher who told me, “Gary, nobody ever went broke underestimating the ignorance of the human race.” He said it humorously, tongue-in-cheek, but I’m afraid there are a number of people who would say that and not be joking at all. In fact, most people seem to think cynicism is the safest path to follow: “Expect the worst, and then if anything better than that takes place, you’ll be pleasantly surprised.”But whatever safety there may be in cynicism, I know of no world-class performers in any field who take that approach. Vince Lombardi would never have told his football players, “Now, guys, I don’t really expect that you’re going to play up to your potential, but if you do, that will be okay. I’ll take it as a pleasant surprise.” No, high achievers from around the world have always expected the best — both of themselves and everybody they collaborated with.The truth is, it’s not naive to expect the best of others, especially our friends and family. The best that others can offer may not be perfect, but whatever their best is, they are capable of offering that to the world, and it’s not unrealistic to expect them to do so.We are motivated by “great expectations” (to borrow Charles Dickens’s phrase). They give us energy to “go for the good stuff.” And so it makes sense to do three things: (1) nourish high expectations of ourselves, (2) surround ourselves with friends who’ll keep our expectations high, and (3) influence others to expect higher things for themselves. In every way, it’s wise to encourage hope in the hearts of our fellow travelers. It’s among the greatest of all gifts, and it’s responsible for many of the best things in life."A master can tell you what he expects of you. A teacher, though, awakens your own expectations" (Patricia Neal).Gary Henry - WordPoints.com + AreYouaChristian.com
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