First Times Around the World

Join host Mary Jane on this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time as we explore how culture, religion, and societal expectations shape first sexual experiences, virginity, intimacy, and sexual identity. Featuring insights from UK-based sexologist Silva Neves, this conversation unpacks global perspectives on virginity, sexual shame, and cultural beliefs around sex and relationships, while challenging long-standing myths about purity, morality, and “losing” virginity. From growing up in conservative households and religious environments to navigating the pressures of sex-positive spaces, this episode explores the emotional complexity of first-time sexual experiences and the impact these messages can have on self-worth, intimacy, and connection. Together, we discuss how to move beyond shame and toward a healthier, more empowered understanding of sexuality and personal growth. Whether your first experience was shaped by faith, culture, family expectations, or your own evolving beliefs, this episode invites reflection, understanding, and self-acceptance.